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The School of Greatness

"Why You're SABOTAGING Your Love Life" - The Neuroscience of Attraction Revealed

The School of Greatness

Lewis Howes

Entrepreneurship, Fitness, Inspiration, Greatness, Health, Money, Celebrity Interview, Self Care, Celebrity, Success, Mental Health, Relationships, Mindset, Health & Fitness, Education, Alternative Health, Business, Self-improvement

4.821.6K Ratings

🗓️ 11 October 2024

⏱️ 71 minutes

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Summary

In this powerful episode of The School of Greatness, I dive deep into the fascinating world of love, relationships, and the human brain with three incredible experts. We kick things off with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart, who breaks down the science behind attraction, bonding, and how our childhood wounds impact our adult relationships. Next, I sit down with relationship guru Matthew Hussey to discuss his new book "Love Life" and unpack the keys to finding lasting love. Finally, we explore the future of dating and how to build strong connections in our tech-driven world. This episode is packed with mind-blowing insights, practical advice, and inspiring stories that will transform how you approach love and relationships. Whether you're single, dating, or in a long-term partnership, you won't want to miss the game-changing wisdom shared in this conversation!

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0:00.0

Welcome to this special masterclass. We've brought some of the top experts in the world to help you unlock

0:06.5

the power of your life through this specific theme today. It's going to be powerful,

0:11.6

so let's go ahead and dive in.

0:14.0

Do you believe that we can be in beautiful, healthy, loving relationships.

0:26.8

And we can manifest everything we have

0:28.5

on our vision or action boards if we have yet

0:31.5

to heal the wounds of our childhood as a neuroscientist?

0:35.0

Not. Really? So if we have these visions and dreams and goals that we want to go after,

0:41.0

if we want to have a beautiful relationship, but we are wounded still. The

0:45.1

inner child is wounded inside of us as adults, what will happen to us?

0:50.3

So this is really about inner child and shadow, right? So I think people understand that you've got an inner child that maybe didn't get over things that you experienced in your childhood. Shadow is about the parts of yourself that you've rejected because as a young child, you rely on your primary caregivers for survival.

1:11.0

Yes. And if there is something that they don't love about you, you want to hide

1:15.7

that for all the world so that they will still love you and like not let you die.

1:20.3

You don't want anyone to know us about you. No. That's shame. So you hide it away in childhood and often find yourself in adulthood no longer even aware of what those things are because you've rejected them so deeply.

1:32.0

Wow. Yeah. But that's... those things are because you've rejected them so deeply.

1:32.6

Wow.

1:33.6

Yeah, but that's driving a lot of your unconscious behavior.

1:37.6

Right.

1:38.6

So if you put together the inner child in the shadow, then what happens is you meet people on the same level of

1:46.4

psychological wound as you. Oh, man. You also leave people where if you evolve out of that and they haven't been able to.

1:55.0

Wow.

1:56.0

Which I think goes back to one of the things that one of the pieces of content I heard you talk about which is like the sense of smell connected to someone's

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