Why You’re Not Having Good Sex ft. Caitlin V

We Met At Acme

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Education, Relationships

4.2 • 2.4K Ratings

🗓️ 28 December 2025

⏱️ 72 minutes

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Summary

Caitlin V is a sex and relationship coach. In this episode, we dig into what’s really going on with sex these days. We talk about how to bring up fantasies without making it weird, what to do when libidos don’t match, how shame blocks intimacy, and why mindset matters as much as technique. We also answer tons of real listener questions: orgasms (and lack of them), ED, mismatched desire, sexual compatibility, painful sex, trying new positions, porn in relationships, confidence in bed, and how to keep things exciting even when routines settle in. If you’ve ever wondered why sex feels complicated—or how to make it easier, healthier, and more connected—this episode is for you.

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Chapters

03:26 Journey into Sex Coaching

08:20 Men's Sexual Health and Challenges

35:55 Exploring Daily Pleasure

37:55 Building a Relationship with Your Body

39:51 Navigating Sexual Compatibility

44:24 Addressing Sexual Myths and Insecurities

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0:00.0	The following podcast is a dear media production.
0:17.8	Hey guys, welcome back to We met at Acme and welcome to the last episode of 2025. That is insane.
0:25.9	Guys, we have released an episode every Sunday since 2017. If you've been listening since the beginning,
0:32.3	you are a goddess, a god, an OG. I love you. I'm so grateful for you. Today is an episode with Caitlin V.
0:40.6	She's a sex and relationship coach. You need to hear this stuff, especially if you're on vacation
0:45.2	right now with, you know, a significant other. We got to talk about sex. And this episode
0:52.2	brought up really good conversations with Stephen and I actually when it came
0:55.8	to sex as well. So unless you're my in-laws or my parents, please continue to listen to this episode.
1:04.3	No, I'm just kidding. I actually don't think there's anything that bad that I talk about,
1:07.8	but who's to say? You never know. I'm a loose canon over here. I sometimes
1:11.9	pretend no one is listening, and that's how I get my episodes out. So I really hope that you
1:18.4	enjoy what Caitlin has to say. I hope that you have an amazing New Year's Eve. I hope you
1:23.4	had a wonderful holiday with your family, and I cannot wait to see you on the other side in
1:29.2	2006 with my brand new baby who I can't wait to introduce you to. And I am like pinching myself
1:39.1	that I will get to ring in the new year with. So God willing, I hope you enjoy and happy and healthy new year.
1:48.2	Hey guys, welcome back to Weeemen at Acme. I'm so happy to be here with Caitlin V,
1:52.3	sex and relationship coach. What's up? Hi, thank you so much for having me. Thank you for being
1:57.4	here. We were just talking about how much we love canceled plans.
2:02.2	And it made me think about, I never watch SNL anymore.
2:05.2	I should.
2:05.8	But did you see the skit about having plans?
2:07.9	No.
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