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Passion Struck with John R. Miles

Why You Need To Stop Playing Small w/ John R. Miles EP 47

Passion Struck with John R. Miles

John R. Miles

Mental Health, Alternative Health, Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.7779 Ratings

🗓️ 23 July 2021

⏱️ 16 minutes

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Summary

In this powerful Passion Struck podcast episode, John R. Miles breaks down why we need to stop playing small and instead play big. He goes through what it means to play small vs playing big and 7 skills you can use to play big and live a no regrets life. Why So Many Are Playing Small in Their Life Did you know that Two-thirds of Brits and over seventy percent of Americans feel they are living an unfulfilled life, according to new research? When we are not living to our full capability, it is the very definition of playing small in our life. That is why it is so vital that we start playing big and living a no regrets life. Despite an overwhelming majority of people saying they have a bucket list, most of us have only ticked off between one and five items on it. That is because we fall into the trap of security, comfort, and fear. Those things holding us back from living the passion-driven life we are meant to live. In this episode, you will understand why it is so detrimental to play small and the criteria for doing so. Also, what it means to play big and how that can have a profound impact on your happiness. New Interviews with the World's GREATEST high achievers will be posted every Tuesday with a Momentum Friday inspirational message! Enjoy!!   PLAYING SMALL SHOW NOTES
  • How dare I play small
  • What does playing small mean?
  • Why do we play small?
  • What is playing big?
  • Skills for playing big
  • How to pursue your bucket list today
  • Being grateful for life
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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome visionaries, creators, innovators, entrepreneurs, leaders, and growth seekers of all types to the Passion Struck Podcast.

0:08.0

Hi, I'm John Miles, a peak performance coach, multi industry CEO, Navy Veteran, and entrepreneur on a mission to make Passion Go viral for millions worldwide.

0:19.0

In each week, I do so by sharing with you an inspirational message, an interview, and high achievers from all walks of life to unlock their secrets and lessons to become a passion Struck.

0:31.0

The purpose of our show is to serve you the listener by giving you tips, tasks, and activities. You can use to achieve peak performance and for too a passion-driven life you have always wanted to have. Now help. Let's become Passion Struck.

0:47.0

Welcome to a Mentum Friday, an episode 46 of the Passion Struck Podcast, which is now ranked in the top 0.5% of all podcasts globally.

1:00.0

Thank you so much. All our viewers and listeners are making Passion Go viral for millions worldwide. We couldn't be doing any of this without your support, and it means so much to me.

1:13.0

I recently did a podcast episode with Trabbel, where we discussed the importance of creating a bucket list.

1:21.0

And during our conversation, he said a quote, which inspired today's episode. He said, bro, dare, I play small. How dare I don't go as big as I possibly can.

1:36.0

And that got me thinking, what does it mean to play small? And why do so many of us decide to play small in our own lives? What are the consequences that happen if you do both short term and long term?

1:53.0

I thought I would unpack all of that and more. In today's episode, in our continuing shows that are focused on diplomacy and humility, this ties right into those topics precisely.

2:07.0

So what does it mean when we play small when we are playing small, we are living our life in a state of fear? Our actions become motivated by our low self work that need for outside validation, our own insecurities that desire for temporary comfort and avoiding those influences at all costs that cause us to stress or trepidation.

2:35.0

Playing small is actually the opposite of becoming passion struck. It is being in a state of indifference and living your life in an existence without passion.

2:48.0

It is settling for life that is okay, but not great existing, but not feeling fulfilled.

2:56.0

It is dismissing the very essence of what we want in life to maintain our current comfort zones of security, acceptance and control.

3:08.0

Playing small is living a life full of regrets because when we play small, we avoid the actions, mindsets and other shifts.

3:19.0

We need to achieve living a life that unleashes our creativity and our full capabilities. So why do we play small? Well, I'll give you an example from my own personal life.

3:32.0

So I can personalize this for you. I lived my life with a real and constant struggle to speak from my heart and let my true self and convictions be known.

3:44.0

A bit part of this for me was hiding from my underlying symptoms caused by post traumatic stress disorder and having multiple traumatic brain injuries.

3:54.0

And both of those caused me tremendous issues with cognitive abilities and not being able to think as quickly as I would like to or as others do on their feet.

4:06.0

Instead of conversing, I would usually remain silent as I would search for words to use as those conversations with flashbinding.

4:16.0

Because of my insecurities, I buried my truth from the world. I thought to myself, I don't want to be a burden on other people.

4:25.0

I don't want to let my secret out. I don't want to feel embarrassed if I forget my words or lose my track of thoughts.

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