Welcome to today's episode of the Mindset Mentor Podcast.

I'm your host Rob Dial.

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We put out episodes four times a week to help you learn, grow, and improve yourself. So if you're one of the people who's looking to improve yourself to improve your life, subscribe so you never miss an episode. Today, I'm going to be talking about why you fall in love with the wrong people. And today we're going to talk about why you don't necessarily just fall in love with people. What you do is you fall in love with patterns of people

who remind you of your unhealed trauma with your parents. And I know it sounds kind of crazy,

but we're going to dive into it today. And until it's healed, it will most likely keep you

stuck in those patterns. And what's really odd about the whole thing is that our

significant others, the longer that you're with somebody, the more romantic this relationship

becomes, you with them for two years, three years, five years, ten years, they often become

proxies for our parents and the things that we need to heal in our relationship with our parents.

So for instance, if you've ever noticed that you date someone and you're like,

you know they're not really good for you, or you know it's not really a good fit,

but for some reason, like, you can't really break it off.

Maybe you've been there before.

Maybe you've noticed friends be there before.

And you might ask yourself, like, why do I keep falling for this type of

person? Why do I keep falling for this type of personality when I know eventually how it's going to

end? In reality, the real question that you should be asking yourself is why do I keep choosing

people who trigger the same wounds that I got from my childhood. And so we're going to dive into it.

It's really interesting.

And I think that you're going to learn a lot about yourself and a lot about other people

who you're like, why can she not just divorce him?

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