Welcome to today's episode of the Mindset Mentor Podcast. I am your host, Rob Dyle, and

today we're going to be talking about why you don't get what you actually truly want

in life. And I'm going to give you a real quick exercise, and I want you to go through

this with me to kind of put everything into perspective. I want you to take both your

arms and put both your arms fully out all the way to the left, all the way to the right.

And what I want you to do is imagine that on your left side is everything that you want,

all your hopes, your dreams, your desires, the perfect health and relationship and all

the money that you want and the friendships and the family and the cars and clothes, whatever

it is that you might want. And all the trips to South Africa, around the world to Europe

and taking your family with you. And on the right hand, what I want you to think is

it's everything that you worry about. Everything that you have in your life that you're

worried about, the coronavirus, or your children getting sick or not having the money that

you want to pay your bills and all of everything on the right is just your fears and everything

that you're worried about as well. So on the left side is everything that you want and

on the right side is everything that you're worried about. Now if you can only put energy

into one of them, what are you actually putting energy to? I want you to look at your

right hand and when you're looking at your right hand, can you even see your left hand

if you're looking at your right hand? So if you're focusing on your fears, the things

that you don't want, you don't want to get sick, you don't want to lose your job, you

don't want to not be able to pay your bills, you don't want your family's health to be compromised.

If you're looking at all of those things on the right, can you even see to the left? No,

you can't. So you don't get what you want, you get what you put energy into. So if you're

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