Why You Chase and He Pulls Away (The Anxious-Avoidant Trap) with Thais Gibson

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🗓️ 12 March 2026

⏱️ 67 minutes

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Summary

Is your attachment style running the relationship?

This week on Daddy Issues, Violet sits down with relationship expert Thais Gibson to break down why you chase, why he pulls away, and how subconscious wiring shapes the way you date.

Thais Gibson is a best-selling author, counselor, and founder of the Personal Development School, known for her work on attachment styles and subconscious relationship patterns.

They discuss the four attachment styles, the anxious-avoidant cycle, emotional triggers, and how childhood conditioning shapes the way you give and receive love.

If the same dating patterns keep repeating in your life, this episode helps you understand why and how to start changing them.

Connect with Thais Gibson: university.personaldevelopmentschool.com

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0:00.0	Hey, call my wife.
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0:04.7	No, call my wife.
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0:27.9	authorized and regulated by the Financial Conduct Authority.
0:30.2	Without realizing, I fixed myself and what became familiar to me was me loving myself,
0:35.9	which is why no longer I accepted my love
0:38.4	with my ex. I'm like, I love myself. Why would I accept this type of love? When I created my daddy
0:43.3	issues right towards the end of our relationship over 10 years ago, he said, that's not very
0:48.4	wife material. Like, I don't want to date someone that has something like that. And I just said,
0:53.8	then we shouldn't be dating.
0:54.9	And I got a cap.
0:57.1	It's file events in your favorite meme queen and the big sit you didn't ask for, but
1:01.5	feed them.
1:02.8	Welcome to Daddy issues.
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