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EmPowered Couples with The Freemans

Why You Both Need to Have Time With Friends Outside the Relationship (But Certain Types of Friends): Episode 190

EmPowered Couples with The Freemans

Aaron & Jocelyn Freeman

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

5.0589 Ratings

🗓️ 9 September 2021

⏱️ 16 minutes

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Summary

When men spend time with other men, it boosts their testosterone (super important), and when women spend time with other women, it boosts their estrogen (super important). Biologically and emotionally, you and your partner NEED time with friends outside of the relationship.

If you don't, it can have a real impact on your happiness as individuals and how you show up for each other. However, it's not time with just any type of friends...it's got to be friends that raise your energy and remind you to be the best version of yourself.

Listen to today's episode for more on this important topic and what types of friends to prioritize as individuals and as a couple.

 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to the Empowered Couples podcast.

0:02.4

We're here you get modern, non-boring relationship advice for you and your partner.

0:07.7

To communicate like pros, fight smarter, and stay in the same team no matter the challenge that you face.

0:12.7

I'm one of your host, Erin Freeman.

0:14.1

And I'm Jocelyn Freeman, but you all just know us as the Freeman's.

0:17.4

This episode is about why you both need to have time with friends outside of the

0:23.3

relationship, but certain types of friends. Yes, and you've heard us before on various episodes

0:29.3

talking about how it's important that you each have some sense of alone time, an individual

0:36.2

fulfillment. And we've alluded to in a couple of episodes

0:39.7

the importance and power of friends, but we want to talk about this specifically. For a couple

0:46.2

of reasons, one being personal and one being more, something we were inspired by, I'll share

0:51.2

the inspired by. So I was hearing an interview with Dr. John Gray. If you're not

0:56.7

familiar with him, he wrote the legendary book. Men are from Mars. Women are from Venus. I remember

1:02.3

my mom had that on her bookshelf when I was like 10. So it's been around a long time.

1:07.8

Sorry, of all the things you said, the only thing I could hear was legend, wait for it,

1:12.8

dairy.

1:14.2

It really is.

1:15.5

I mean, so many books have been sold.

1:17.5

But he does a lot of work in terms of like biology and how biology impacts relationships.

1:23.0

And he was reminding me about his work really focusing on how, what he says from his research,

1:29.5

that men biologically need to be around other men to boost their testosterone, which is so

1:38.3

important for men to feel kind of in their power, empowered, healthy, balanced.

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