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Hi there, this is Jillian On Love, and I'm on a mission to teach people how to transform their

romantic relationships by transforming the relationship

they have with themselves. So whether you are in a relationship, you're single or heartbroken.

I've got you covered. I'm Jillian Turekki, certified relationship coach, author, and teacher

with over 20 years experience helping people transform their relationship with

themselves through their bodies, breaths, and minds. I have now coached and taught thousands of people

to become better versions of themselves and change the way they show up for and within their

love lives. I am very excited about today's episode because it's one that I've been getting a lot

of requests for. Why do you keep attracting emotionally unavailable people? That's the question that I get.

It's not the question I get the most, but it's like in the top five. Why do I keep attracting

emotionally unavailable people?

And this is actually a very, very important topic

because when we do feel like we keep repeating this pattern

and it's just extremely painful. And so I, what I have to do is I'm going

to give you a list of why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable people. But first,

I want to talk about what emotional unavailability is and what emotional availability is

because I do think there is some confusion. So when when someone is emotionally available to you

...