Why Won’t She Dump The Chump & Date Me Instead?
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 23 February 2026
⏱️ 23 minutes
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| 0:57.3 | why won't she dump the chump and date me instead? |
| 1:01.9 | Well, this particular email is from a viewer who's basically allowed himself to kind of become obsessed with a female coworker |
| 1:09.9 | who barely mentions her boyfriend. |
| 1:13.6 | She likes to flirt with him. |
| 1:16.0 | And it's pretty clear he's become enchanted with her and is hoping he's going to get a chance. |
| 1:21.7 | And it looks like he may be, in addition to giving her lots of attention and validation, |
| 1:27.2 | that he's basically become part of her |
| 1:30.4 | Frankenstein boyfriend project in other words she's got the guy that she's in a relationship with |
| 1:35.9 | that she sleeps with but obviously the the emotional and mental connection is not there |
| 1:41.4 | and so guys like this fulfill that need while they complain about the boyfriend or whatever. |
| 1:47.7 | It's gotten to the point where her boyfriend is aware of this guy because his girlfriend |
| 1:51.8 | has mentioned this dude's name enough times to where he gets upset. |
| 1:57.6 | And that's one of the things that women tend to do if they're not happy is they tell you about the nice |
| 2:03.1 | guy the friend from work he's a great guy they talk about them in glowing terms like that that's |
| 2:09.5 | kind of her way of disclosing hey here's your replacement if you don't get your shit together |
| 2:14.3 | and the reality is you don't want to be one of those guys because if she's |
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