Why Women Try To Push Your Buttons
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 12 November 2021
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What it means and why women try to push your buttons.
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter. |
| 0:04.0 | And the topic of today's newsletter is going to be why women try to push your buttons. |
| 0:10.0 | So this is a really good email and the reason why I like it, I actually had a phone session with a guy last night. |
| 0:17.0 | And we had a similar conversation where his now ex-girlfriend was pushing his buttons and trying to do things to upset him and get under his skin and cause him to be uncenter because he had a little bit of an anger issue. |
| 0:33.6 | He tended to get upset and mad and angry. |
| 0:36.5 | And the reality is when you do that, when you |
| 0:38.3 | behave that way, in other words, when you display that you're perturbed instead of being |
| 0:43.0 | unperturable, it caused a woman not to feel safe in your presence. And so if they think they can do |
| 0:50.3 | and say things that are going to upset you, they're going to do it because they're hoping |
| 0:54.5 | that you remain calm. If you remain calm, then you're in your masculine. If you get totally |
| 1:01.5 | upset, then you're totally being and you're feminine and losing control. And it's really |
| 1:07.1 | unattractive to a woman. So I got a quote that I wrote in this topic, and we'll go through his email, because this is really good, especially for you guys that are in long-term relationships, or in this particular case, this guy, he said he screwed up with this girl a year ago, and now he's kind of got like a second chance, and I don't think he's actually read my work because he's talking to this girl about going out on group dates and things instead of just hanging out with her and him alone. |
| 1:33.3 | But you can see she's doing things to see if she can get under his skin and trying to create some drama. |
| 1:40.9 | And so far he's not taking the bait, which is good. |
| 1:45.0 | But if that's why it went sideways a year ago, it's because he was getting upset and he was easily perturbed, she's going to remember that. |
| 1:54.0 | And women will do these things just to see how you react. |
| 1:58.0 | If you remain calm, that's masculinity, because masculinity is being dangerous, |
| 2:04.2 | but also most importantly, being kind. So the quote says, a woman needs to feel safe and |
| 2:12.4 | comfortable in order to open up to a man, trust his leadership, and willfully submit to him. If a man is easily |
| 2:19.2 | perturbed and she knows how to push his buttons to upset him, she will usually do it anyway just |
| 2:25.3 | to see how he reacts. This is a test of his strength and emotional self-control. If he comes |
| 2:31.6 | unglued, she gets turned off. If he is unperturbed, she gets turned on. |
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