Why We Tell Black Children Not To Say The Word ‘Lie’
Black History Year
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🗓️ 3 January 2025
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This tiny three-letter word was forbidden in so many of our families. Saying “lie” was like swearing. But there’s a reason we were raised to never say it.
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| 0:32.0 | This tiny three-letter word was forbidden in so many of our families. |
| 0:38.3 | Saying lie was like swearing. |
| 0:42.0 | But there's a reason we were raised to never say it. |
| 0:45.9 | This is two-minute black history, what you didn't learn in school. |
| 1:03.0 | Okay. Respecting elders has roots in African cultures pre-slavery. We value family. |
| 1:05.0 | But there is another tradition. |
| 1:07.0 | Black parents raising their children to follow orders and bite their tongues. |
| 1:11.6 | And that's tied to racial etiquette during Jim Crow. |
| 1:16.6 | Starting with the word lie. |
| 1:19.6 | Many of our parents were raised and raised us never to say the word lie as children, |
| 1:35.3 | especially not to elders. |
| 1:37.3 | Alternatives like telling a story or fib were household staples instead. |
| 1:44.6 | And that was a key way to practice surviving in Jim Crow using these etiquette rules. |
| 1:52.7 | Don't curse at white people. |
| 1:55.1 | Don't imply you're smarter than white people. |
| 1:58.6 | Don't eat with white people. Don't show public displays of affection in front of white people. |
| 2:06.6 | Don't forget to call white people sir, ma'am, mister, or mists. And under no circumstances were you to call a |
| 2:15.1 | white person a liar or even imply that they were. Meanwhile, whites constantly |
| 2:22.9 | assumed black people to be liars, shackling our identity to criminality, laziness, and cowardice. |
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