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The New Man

Why We’re Attracted to the Wrong People (and What to Do About It) — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

The New Man

Tripp Lanier

Self-improvement, Education, Business, Health & Fitness, Entrepreneurship

4.6644 Ratings

🗓️ 3 June 2025

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

Why do some guys crave women who aren’t good for them? Is the “nice girl” always boring — and the “bad girl” more fun? And do we really need to put on an act just to make a relationship work? Today, Alyson and I talk about something a lot of people wrestle with — feeling torn between who we’re attracted to and who’s actually a better fit. We explore why we often contort ourselves to be accepted, how that shapes attraction, and what to do if feel like you have to choose between chemistry and connection.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/06/attraction-vs-connection   COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com   BOOK   → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Transcript

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0:00.0

Before we start the show, I want to thank the thousands of you, the thousands who have read.

0:06.6

This book will make you dangerous. Many of you have told me that the book's unique way of exploring

0:11.1

fear, confidence, and purpose has had a lasting impact, that it's much easier for you to get

0:17.2

clarity and direction about what really matters and what you want to do in this lifetime.

0:23.1

It's also amazing to hear that quite a few of you have read it multiple times and even bought

0:27.7

copies for friends. So thank you again. Just in case you weren't aware, I created a free companion

0:33.6

video course for the book. And in these videos, I walk you through the big takeaways and practices

0:38.9

from each chapter. And I even cover some extra stuff that's not included in the book.

0:43.8

Information on how to access the course is in newer versions of the book. And if you own an older

0:48.6

version of the book and you don't know how to access the course, just hit me up via the contact

0:53.0

form at triplinear., and we'll get you all

0:55.7

set up. And one last thing, if you're one of the thousands who have already read the book,

1:00.4

please consider leaving an honest review on Amazon so that others can decide if it's right for them.

1:05.5

Again, thank you so much for reading this book will make you dangerous, and now let's start the

1:10.1

show. She's not into now, let's start the show.

1:18.1

She's not into the fun, adventurous stuff. Well, that's, that's his assumption.

1:24.0

Okay. That he's working within this world that there are two types of women, let's say.

1:30.5

Okay. Right. They're good, wholesome women that have values and they're smart and can connect and all that kind of stuff.

1:34.5

And then there's the ones that you don't bring home to mama, but they're a lot of fun.

1:34.9

Okay.

1:35.6

All right. All right.

1:36.0

So this is what this is the lens he's looking through.

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