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The Best of You

Why We Project

The Best of You

Dr. Alison Cook

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.9958 Ratings

🗓️ 13 January 2026

⏱️ 7 minutes

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.Today’s Scripture is Luke 6:27-42 .Go Deeper: Episode 95: 4 Toxic Behaviors & How to Protect Yourself Get a free Map of the Soul to help you get curious about the parts of your own soul in partnership with God’s Spirit. ⁠Sign up⁠ for Dr. Alison’s free weekly email for ongoing reflection and support.While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only.‍ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey everyone, I'm Dr. Allison. Today's scripture offers us a wiser way of being human as we step into the day.

0:11.8

As we move into this day, today's passage invites us to consider a pattern many of us fall into without realizing it,

0:18.9

especially when relationships feel tense, confusing,

0:21.7

or emotionally charged. It's the pattern that psychologists call projection. Today's reading

0:28.0

comes from Luke 6, 37 through 38, and 41 through 42. Do not judge, and you will not be judged.

0:35.5

Do not condemn and you will not be condemned. Forgive and you will be forgiven.

0:41.9

Give and it will be given to you. A good measure pressed down, shaken together and running over will be

0:48.1

poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your

0:57.7

brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother,

1:03.0

brother, let me take the speck out of your eye when you yourself fail to see the plank in your own eye?

1:09.6

You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your eye, and then you will

1:14.1

see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye. Jesus begins this teaching with language

1:19.9

that can feel confronting. Do not judge, you hypocrite. And I've come to appreciate how direct

1:26.0

Jesus is. He's not issuing a moral threat. He's describing us.

1:31.5

It's a very real relational dynamic, one that plays out quietly and consistently in every human

1:36.9

relationship. The metaphor Jesus uses here is intentionally exaggerated, a tiny speck in someone else's

1:43.6

eye and a massive plank in your own.

1:46.1

It's almost humorous, and I love the humor because Jesus is trying to help us see something

1:50.8

about ourselves, not to shame us, but to help us be honest with ourselves.

1:56.2

What Jesus is talking about here is a form of projection. Projection happens when something inside me feels

2:02.1

uncomfortable, unresolved, or threatening, and instead of turning toward what's in me, I locate it in someone else.

2:09.2

We become highly attuned to someone else's flaws, their tone, their mistakes, their blind spots,

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