So why do narcissists or toxic people get angrier the older that we get?

Because I'm a diagnosed narcissist, right?

Why do they get angrier or meaner as their looks and charm tend to fade?

What goes on inside the mind of a narcissistic person or a manipulator, manipulative person?

If you're here, I'm Lee Hammack. I'm a diagnosed narcissist. Welcome to another episode of the Narcissist's Code. Let's get it. I missed the intro, y'all.

I had to bring it back today.

Just for today, I missed the intro.

What's up, y'all?

The aging manipulator, the aging abuser, the aging,

charming, narcissistic person. What goes on the side to mind of somebody like this as they get older,

right? So you got to ask yourself the question right now. Let me ask you the question. Have you ever

noticed that the person who used to be charming and perfect is like suddenly becoming a nightmare now that they're getting older? Now they got a little crow's feet or wrinkles and things like that. Huh? Like right now, they used to be cool, right? They used to be narcissistic, but they used to be kind of, they used to be tolerable.

You used to could tolerate them. But now they're, now they're more critical. They bitter as

hell. They lash not at you for no reason. The look, the smallest thing sets them off. I appreciate it. The smallest thing sets them off, the Grinch turns an old

geese. Yes, yes, yes. The smallest thing just makes them blow the hell up. Why is that? Have you

noticed that before? Right? Why is that? As a diagnosed narcissist that is getting older, I am getting

older. Look, I'm 40. I'm 40 years old right now. I be 41, actually in two months,

which is crazy, right? Like, I've experienced this. And it really is a fear of losing the ability to get one of one of the reason is the fear of losing that ability to get narcissistic supply.

What's going on, Julisa?

It really is.

That's one of the main things.

It's one of the main fears that narcissistic people experience.

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