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Plain English with Derek Thompson

Why the Voice Inside Your Head Can Sound Like a Jerk

Plain English with Derek Thompson

The Ringer

News, News Commentary

4.72.1K Ratings

🗓️ 20 September 2022

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

Today’s episode is about the science of self-talk—and how our relationship to our own inner monologue can become toxic. Psychologist Ethan Kross joins the show to explain his work on emotion regulation, his book 'Chatter' on the science of negative self-talk, why the ability to have an inner monologue can be a kind of superpower, and how to harness it. If you have questions, observations, or ideas for future episodes, email us at PlainEnglish@Spotify.com. You can find us on TikTok at www.tiktok.com/@plainenglish_.Host: Derek Thompson Guest: Ethan Kross Producer: Devon Manze Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

I'm Matt Bellini, founding partner of Puck News, and I'm covering the inside conversation

0:05.6

about money and power in Hollywood.

0:08.1

With my new show The Town, I'm going to take you inside Hollywood, with exclusive

0:11.9

insight on what people in show business are actually talking about.

0:15.6

Multiple times a week, I'll talk to some of the smartest people I know, journalists,

0:19.7

insiders, all of whom can break down the hottest topics and entertainment to tell you what's

0:24.0

really going on.

0:26.0

Listen now.

0:31.0

Today's episode is about our inner monologue.

0:35.1

If I asked you, who's the person that you talk to most in the world?

0:40.1

You might say, you're best friend, you're spouse, parent, sister, colleague, but for most

0:45.0

of us, the answer is, us.

0:48.6

We are the person we talk to most.

0:52.0

And that's because most people are blessed and cursed with the ability to think in words.

0:58.8

We replay past conversations.

1:01.1

We imagine future dialogues.

1:02.8

We pump ourselves up.

1:04.0

We repeat shopping lists to commit them to memory on our way to CVS, shampoo, conditioner,

1:08.8

soap, toothbrush, shampoo, conditioner, soap, toothbrush.

1:12.8

But that voice in our head isn't always very nice to us.

1:17.1

It isn't always very useful.

1:19.8

Sometimes it's just a jerk.

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