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Our American Stories

Why the “Perfect Mom” Doesn’t Exist

Our American Stories

iHeartPodcasts

Documentary, Society & Culture

4.6817 Ratings

🗓️ 25 March 2026

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

On this episode of Our American Stories, Tiffany Jenkins built a large following as a mom influencer and creator of Juggling the Jenkins, but her story doesn’t match the polished version of motherhood people see online. She shares what it felt like to become a mother while rebuilding her life, including the reality of postpartum depression and the pressure that comes from comparing yourself to other parents.

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0:00.0

This is an I-Heart podcast.

0:02.5

Guaranteed Human.

0:14.4

And we return to our American stories.

0:17.8

Tiffany Jenkins is a wife and a mother of three.

0:20.5

She's acquired a huge social media

0:22.4

following on her blog, Juggling the Jenkins, where her videos receive millions of views. Tiffany

0:28.2

wrote a highly successful memoir, High Achiever, the shocking true story of one addict's double

0:35.1

life. Here's Tiffany Jenkins with the rest of her story and what it means to be a good mom.

0:42.8

You know what I want to talk about today?

0:44.4

I want to talk about what it means to be a good mom, okay?

0:47.9

Because listen, if you look on social media and YouTube, okay, let's take YouTube,

0:52.8

for example, they have tons of videos,

0:55.8

of families announcing pregnancies to their loved ones, right? And it's always so joyous,

1:02.1

and everybody's so excited and screaming and yelling, and they're like, oh my God, finally,

1:06.3

thank you. Look at these little booties. I'm going to have a green kid. Okay. That was not how my pregnancy

1:14.2

announcement went. I had been living in a halfway house for two months and I started dating this guy

1:20.2

and I got an overnight pass, okay, one weekend. I got one overnight pass. I'm not going to go

1:26.9

into detail about what happened on the overnight pass, but let's just say that two weeks later, my body started acting a little weird.

1:34.2

I didn't have a job or a car at the time, so I'd scraped together some quarters and walked my butt down to the dollar tree and bought a pregnancy test.

1:43.8

I took a pregnancy test in the

1:45.2

bathroom of the halfway house I was living at with six other women. And when the second line popped

1:49.6

up, I collapsed on the floor and lost my mind. It was not joyous. I was not excited. I was

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