Why Some Couples Divorce and Others Find Their Way Back
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 23 September 2025
⏱️ 46 minutes
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Summary
Divorce lawyer Jonathan Merel joins the podcast to share what he’s learned about love, marriage, and relationships from his years in family law. We talk about why couples file for divorce, how often people start the process but end up reconciling, what healthy couples have in common, and the truth about prenups. Jonathan also shares his personal perspective on love and commitment—and advice for couples looking to strengthen their relationship.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:08.0 | Jonathan Merrill, welcome to seeing other people. |
| 0:11.1 | Happy to be here. |
| 0:12.2 | Thanks for having me, Alana. |
| 0:13.6 | Excited to have you as you are somebody who sees a very different side of love than I do. |
| 0:22.5 | You are a family and divorce lawyer. |
| 0:26.3 | You are the founder of Merrill Family Law. |
| 0:29.0 | You see relationships coming to an end. |
| 0:33.1 | You work with couples who have tried and tried and tried to fix whatever crack in their system |
| 0:41.4 | and they have decided it's not working. There's so much that I am excited to ask you about. |
| 0:48.0 | There's so much I want to know about the couples you see, what your thoughts are on love |
| 0:53.2 | and marriage after working in divorce. |
| 0:55.4 | But before we get into all that, why did you choose this specific path? |
| 1:02.0 | Like what made you want to work with people getting divorced? |
| 1:05.5 | You know, after practicing for over 20 years, I'm still trying to figure that out. |
| 1:09.7 | I actually fell into it. I mean, I went to law |
| 1:12.4 | school. I didn't know what type of law I wanted to practice. My uncle and father were lawyers, |
| 1:16.8 | but they didn't do divorce. I really didn't want to do anything like too corporate or tax or |
| 1:22.5 | anything kind of not very stimulating, as I like to say. I needed like human interaction. I needed like something |
| 1:31.0 | to like keep me going instead of just kind of drafting the same documents over and over and |
| 1:36.1 | like transactional stuff. I needed like the human interaction. So when I started in law school, |
| 1:41.8 | I took my first job as a law clerk, which happened to be at a family law firm. |
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