Why Some Breakups Feel Impossible (And How To Get Through Them)
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 25 March 2025
⏱️ 51 minutes
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Summary
I sit down with author, podcaster, and relationship coach Allison Raskin for a raw and insightful conversations about love, heartbreak, and moving forward. Allison opens up about her broken engagement that left her blindsided—and how she rebuilt her life, redefined her self-worth, and unexpectedly found love again.We discuss why some breakups feel impossible to move on from and how overthinking can impact relationships. Allison discusses the biggest mistakes people make in dating and how to break free from them, why you do not need to be fully healed before dating again and what helped her learn to trust love after experiencing such a painful loss.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:06.4 | Alison Raskin, welcome to seeing other people. |
| 0:09.7 | Oh, thank you for having me. |
| 0:11.8 | You blow me away for so many reasons. |
| 0:16.0 | I don't know how we have the same number of hours in the day. |
| 0:19.6 | You are an author. You are the co-host |
| 0:22.3 | of Just Between Us. You are a relationship coach. I can't even speak. You're a relationship |
| 0:26.9 | coach. You're hilarious is the most impressive part because you would think somebody that is that |
| 0:33.3 | much of an accomplished woman and a success can't also be funny, but you are. |
| 0:40.7 | Honestly, you really have said everything I've ever wanted to hear. I've always been like, |
| 0:46.6 | I don't care if people think I'm pretty. I mean, I do. Or like smart. I do. But like, funny is like, |
| 0:51.8 | I'm like, if someone was like, you're not funny, that would really, |
| 0:54.8 | that would be the most devastating of all. You are hilarious. You are pretty. You are smart. |
| 1:00.0 | You have amazing hair. I'm pretty much obsessed with you. But no, I'm, I'm so excited to have you here. |
| 1:05.5 | I'm so excited for your new book, Save the Date coming out April 8th. Congratulations. |
| 1:11.2 | How does it feel to have your Date coming out April 8th. Congratulations. Thank you. |
| 1:11.9 | How does it feel to have your name coming out on another book that's going to be in |
| 1:16.0 | bookstores haunting everyone in your past everywhere? |
| 1:19.2 | So this one in particular is very funny because it's my first rom-com novel. |
| 1:24.7 | And it's based off of my own broken engagement where my fiance just like abruptly left |
| 1:29.8 | me in November of 2020 without any real explanation. |
| 1:34.3 | And it was obviously like the middle of COVID and I was living in L.A. |
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