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Plain English with Derek Thompson

Why So Many Young Men Are Lonely, Sexless, and Extremely Online

Plain English with Derek Thompson

The Ringer

News Commentary, News

4.81.8K Ratings

🗓️ 6 June 2023

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

Today’s episode is about the state of men in America. Last week, the non-profit institute Equimondo published a report on the state of men and boys in America: “Many men—especially younger men—are socially disconnected, pessimistic about the future, and turning to online anger," they wrote. "They are facing higher rates of depressive symptoms, suicidal thoughts, and a sense of isolation, as seen in the agreement of 65 percent that 'no one really knows me well.'" One survey is one survey. It doesn’t do a lot of good to overreact and proclaim one set of findings the iron law of American sociology. But this report is in line with other polls and also with the analyses of experts like Richard Reeves, the Brookings scholar who wrote the book ‘Of Boys and Men.’ Richard is today’s returning guest. We talk about how complaining about masculinity is history’s oldest trope; why this time might be different; what young men think about feminism; the effect of social media on boys and why it might be different than the effect of social media on girls; and what a positive version of masculinity might look like. If you have questions, observations, or ideas for future episodes, email us at [email protected]. You can find us on TikTok at www.tiktok.com/@plainenglish_ Host: Derek Thompson Guest: Richard Reeves Producer: Devon Manze Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Today's episode is about the state of men in America.

0:37.2

Last week, I came across a document, a new report

0:40.4

by the nonprofit institute called Equimanda. This report was called

0:45.1

the state of American men 2023. It kicks off with this quote,

0:51.0

many men, especially younger men, are socially disconnected,

0:55.4

pessimistic about the future, and turning to online anger.

0:59.9

They are facing higher rates of depressive symptoms, suicidal thoughts,

1:03.5

and a sense of isolation as seen in the agreement of 65%

1:08.5

that no one really knows me well.

1:12.1

End quote. That is just a one of several observations about young men

1:19.2

from this report that absolutely stopped me cold.

1:23.1

Here's some more. 30% of young men say that in a typical week,

1:27.9

they don't hang out with anybody outside their house.

1:31.7

60% of young men say they watch porn every week.

1:36.4

Put those together, that means that in any given week, young men today are

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