Why She Seems Bored, Less Interested & Pulls Away

Coach Corey Wayne

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.6 • 532 Ratings

🗓️ 19 August 2021

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Why women sometimes seem bored, less interested and pull away the longer you are together.

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0:00.0	Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter. And the topic of today's
0:05.0	newsletter is going to be why she seems bored, less interested, and pulls away. I've got an email.
0:11.7	This is from a guy. He says he's been following me for about two years. And he says his girlfriend
0:17.1	of the past 13 months, things have been going pretty great, but he says lately
0:22.8	she seems to be kind of bored or less interested. She's kind of pulling away when he tries
0:28.2	to do spontaneous dates. Most of the time she'll reject him. And there's some signs even in
0:35.4	her responses to him that you can tell she feels like a little
0:41.3	bit like she's being smothered.
0:43.9	And so what I love about this email is it you could see the subtle ways that a guy doesn't
0:49.7	realize he's over pursuing and communicating that he's more interested in her than she is in him,
0:58.9	and he's getting perturbed by it, and she's picking up on that.
1:03.3	And so because she's picking up on that, she starts to back away a little bit more,
1:07.7	and even though she's doing 90% of the contact initiation he's
1:13.1	still when they're together trying too hard and not noticing it he's thinking hey I'm
1:18.3	not I'm not pursuing too much I'm not over pursuing because she does 90% of the contact
1:24.6	initiation but if I look at her actions her, and some of the words that she's
1:28.9	saying to him, I can tell that he's trying too hard. In other words, he's more invested in the
1:33.7	relationship than he is. So the power has flipped. And this is typically what happens the longer
1:39.7	a guy is with a woman. And the fact that he's writing me an email about the fact that she's not
1:47.7	making the effort, but he's saying, well, it's not me. I'm not over pursuing. But again, you can see
1:54.4	little hints of it in his email because all I have to do is look at her actions. And what she's
1:59.5	saying, it doesn't matter
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