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Ask Pastor John

Why Sexual Metaphors of Jesus and His Bride Embarrass Us

Ask Pastor John

Desiring God

John Piper, Unknown, 163859, Pastor, Ask, Theology, Desiring God, Religion & Spirituality/christianity, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Questions

4.83.8K Ratings

🗓️ 29 December 2015

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Summary

Marriage — including sexual intimacy — portrays Jesus’s relationship with the church. Pastor John explains how.

Transcript

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I guess listen to a name of Hannah, right to end to ask this, Pastor John, I often hear

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people and pastors say that sex between a husband and a wife is a picture of the love

0:13.5

between Christ and his church.

0:16.2

When this comparison is given, I almost always see people or the pastor speaking blush,

0:21.3

as well as the audience, as if it is an awkward and unexpected comparison.

0:26.1

I believe this picture of sex and Christ with his church to be true, but I am one of

0:30.5

many who has a hard time wrapping my mind around it and would have a hard time describing

0:34.9

it to someone else.

0:36.3

I have two questions regarding this, one, how is sex between a husband and a wife a practical

0:40.9

example of Christ and his church?

0:42.9

Number two, why is this truth something so many are so uncomfortable with?

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Well I am not blushing and I'm excited.

0:51.2

I like this question.

0:53.8

So in answer to the second question, why is this truth something many are uncomfortable

0:59.9

with?

1:01.7

My guess is there at least three reasons, they're probably more, but here are my three.

1:05.6

Number one is that we don't have a robust enough vision of the beauty and depth and sacredness

1:12.9

of the actual event of sexual intercourse as God designed it.

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Number two, our own experience of sexuality is so tainted with selfishness and pornographic

1:24.6

corruption, either in our head or in the media, that we can scarcity have a thought about sex

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without the presence of those corruptions.

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And to be fair, there's a third factor that creates discomfort.

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