Hey everyone, it's your girl Breene Lee and welcome to the pep talk podcast where we have real, raw, relatable conversations with the pep talk you need.

You have the power to create your future with the choices that you made today.

What do you bring to the table? Baby, I am the table.

Fuck yourself a little bit more than that, ladies. Come on. Dust settles, queens don't. And don't forget,

know your worth and then attacks. Period. I don't believe that self-love exists in a vacuum. We are trying to convince ourselves that we love

ourselves when all we want to do is be loved. I will never say, just love yourself, as if that's

enough to feel love. Like, I'm not afraid of being alone. I just don't like being lonely.

Hey guys, I want to talk to you guys about the self-love myth. Is self-love a myth? Does self-love work? And how do you do self-love correctly? And this

comes off of the back of one of you guys' messages on Instagram.

Of course, you guys must know I get a ton of messages every single day

and it's virtually impossible to get round to most of them.

However, sometimes I may just take a scroll down my messages and I did that and I came

across this message.

I don't know why I saw it when I saw it, but she

perfectly explained how I have once felt and even the elements of how I still feel today.

And so the way that I see things is if one person is feeling a certain type of way, it's

almost guaranteed that there's a whole tribe of people feeling that exact same way.

So I'm going to read the message that our dear lovely sister sent on Instagram and it reads.

I saw your last post.

Okay, my last post was this post and I was encouraging people to buy themselves flowers.

Not to wait to be loved to love yourself okay and I posted that photo because that's exactly what I did I bought myself flowers

and for some people it'd be like that's not very revolutionary I buy myself flowers all the time

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