Why Saying No Can Make People Trust You More

Negotiate Anything

American Negotiation Institute

Education, Careers, Business

4.8 • 659 Ratings

🗓️ 29 March 2025

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian delves into the often-overlooked yet crucial role of saying "no" in negotiation. While many focus on getting to "yes," Kwame explains why mastering the art of saying "no" can actually enhance your negotiation results and relationships. Through insightful strategies like the "no sandwich" technique, listeners will learn to deliver their "no" in a way that is both respectful and effective. With practical examples and actionable advice, this episode equips you with the tools to handle difficult conversations with poise and clarity. What will be covered: The psychological barriers that make saying "no" challenging. Common ineffective strategies when people try to avoid saying "no." Techniques for saying "no" without damaging relationships, such as the "no sandwich." Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

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0:42.8	Hey, I'm Kwame Christian, and you are about to step into the world of Negotiate Anything,
0:48.1	the number one negotiation podcast in the world where we teach you how to make difficult conversations easier
0:53.7	while getting more of what you want in the process. we teach you how to make difficult conversations easier while getting more of
0:54.9	what you want in the process. Each episode is packed with practical tips and strategies from the
1:00.4	experts. We delve into negotiation, conflict resolution, and leadership skills that are crucial
1:06.0	in both business and in life. Whether you're closing a deal, managing a team, or navigating personal relationships,
1:13.1	Negotiate Anything provides you with the tools you need to succeed. Our conversations are real,
1:18.9	relatable, and most importantly, rooted in practicality. So if you're ready to transform your
1:24.7	conversations and elevate your negotiation skills, join me on Negotiate
1:29.1	Anything. Subscribe and listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you love to listen. Let's make
1:35.3	every conversation a winning negotiation. So now on to our topic. No. In negotiation, we always focus on yes. I think of the most popular
1:48.4	negotiation book. It's called getting to yes. But the thing is, no is an important part of
1:54.5	negotiation and no is an important part of life in general. And so today you will discover why saying no can be so hard.
2:04.4	Why Warren Buffett believes in the power of no as an essential part of why his business is so
2:10.3	successful and how we can say no to people in a way that actually strengthens the relationship.
2:16.6	Have you ever had that experience where you find yourself doing something that you really
2:21.3	didn't want to do?
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