Matthew Hussey is a great relationship expert with solid advice. “How a person is making you feel is more important than how you feel about them,” is just one tiny piece of his advice that will surely challenge the perspective you have of your current and former relationships. It’s not easy putting yourself out there, being vulnerable and open to the possibilities of a new relationship when you're barely navigating the signs of how into you this person is, and what to do with the off comment he or she made over dinner you didn’t like. Matthew rejoins Lisa with no shortage of knowledge. If you’ve been stuck trying to figure out if you’re in love or in lust with your current partner, this episode will help open your eyes and consider angels of your relationship you haven’t considered. SHOW NOTES: Love or Lust | Examining the differences between the two and if love at first sight it real [0:40] Defining Love | Knowing what love means to not be victim of being lavished with attention [5:23] Be Intentional | Matthew shares how to be intentional and communicate what you want [12:01] Value Consistency | How love values consistency but it needs to be communicated [16:26] Bedazzled | Matthew exposes truth on why average days matter more than 5% dazzling [19:33] How He Makes You Feel | Why how he makes you feel is the reality of the relationship [24:28] He’s Not All Bad | How someone can be bad for you and not inherently bad as a person [28:10] Different Person | The person you break up with isn’t the same person you started dating [33:03] Address Issues | Ignoring issues becomes inevitable problems, confront the hard topics [37:45] Trust Yourself | Ways to take comfort in trusting yourself even if you’ve been wronged [48:10] Putting Yourself Out There | Matthew shares 2 easy steps to putting yourself out there [55:36] Breaking Beliefs | Secret to breaking existing beliefs that keeps you from happiness [1:00:00] Run Experiments | Trying new things in similar dating situations can help you evolve [1:06:08] Be Humble | Matthew exposes how humility is needed to see how wrong you are [1:11:50] Check out our sponsor: Blinkist: Go to https://blinkist.com/woi Try it FREE for 7 days and save 25% off your new subscription. Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices