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Why Proving You’ve Changed Is The Wrong Mindset To Get Her Back

Coach Corey Wayne

Coach Corey Wayne

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.6532 Ratings

🗓️ 18 March 2026

⏱️ 12 minutes

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Why proving you’ve changed doesn’t work to get her back & what to do instead.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who lost his girlfriend due to his drinking and infidelity. He quit drinking and his ex lives in his building. They’ve only hooked up 3 times this past year, but he wants her back as his girlfriend. He asks what can he do to prove that he’s changed so she will give him another chance at a relationship. I tell him what to do instead.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1Here is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://books.apple.com/us/audiobook/quotes-ruminations-contemplations-volume-i-unabridged/id1567242372?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=audio-books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contem&ls=1Click the link below to book phone/Zoom (audio only) coaching with me personally:https://understandingrelationships.com/products/phone-coachingClick the link below to make a donation via PayPal to support my work:https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=KNH8SDFGVT8UC

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Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and and this is my video coaching newsletter.

0:24.7

And the topic of today's newsletter is going to be,

0:27.8

why proving you've changed is the wrong mindset to get her back.

0:31.4

Well, this particular viewer has been a very naughty boy.

0:42.6

He's had a drinking problem and he says his drinking led to him being a serial liar and cheater. And so eventually his ex just got tired of it and she dipped on him.

0:53.0

She also lives in his building so he sees her occasionally.

0:57.5

He says since September last year when they broke up, which is quite a lot of time, they

1:01.2

only hooked up three times.

1:03.7

So he wants her back as his girlfriend and he asks what he can do to prove that he's changed

1:09.2

so she'll give him another chance so number one that's the

1:12.6

absolute wrong mindset if you got dumped and you wanted to stay together and she wasn't willing to

1:18.2

let you work things out i mean an obvious obviously in this case here because he was cheating on her

1:22.9

she probably just had enough and the only way of reconciliation is possible is if it's her idea, if she's

1:30.3

open to it. And so when you see her in the building, be friendly, smile, wave, about your business,

1:38.0

but don't go out of your way to talk to her. If she wants to talk to you, she'll come up

1:40.7

and talk to you. If she has any kind of interest, she's going to text

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