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Why Parents Don’t Spank

Ask Pastor John

Desiring God

Christianity, Pastor, John Piper, Theology, Ask, Religion & Spirituality/christianity, Desiring God, 163859, Religion & Spirituality, Questions

4.94.1K Ratings

🗓️ 3 October 2014

⏱️ 7 minutes

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Summary

Does spanking amount to abuse, or does it have a place in parenting? Ted Tripp counsels parents on when physical discipline is appropriate.

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Happy Friday everyone, we're back once more to close out the week with parenting expert

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Ted Tripp.

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He's been with us all week.

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And Dr. Tripp, yesterday you explained the importance of physical display and training

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young children and your early reluctance to embrace the practice as a young parent.

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Scripture is not silent here, of course, but many Christian parents simply say, you know

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what, I'm not going to do it for whatever reason, we're not going to spank our kids.

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And you said last time you felt like this has been a losing battle for you over the

0:32.3

last 40 years in America as fewer and fewer Christian families are willing to embrace

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this.

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So, from your perspective, among faithful church-going parents who love Jesus, love their

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Bibles, love their kids, what are the most common hurdles that prevent parents from

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using physical discipline in child training?

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You know, I think there are, I guess I have two answers to that question.

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One answer is I think that a lot of people are very influenced by the thought forms of

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the culture.

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I mean, you know, the world of ideas is like the world of fashion, things go in out of style.

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The idea of physical discipline is not in style in our culture.

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So it's hard for people because in our culture, a parent who does physical discipline is regarded

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as kind of a simple-minded person who's not too creative and can't think of better ways

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to deal with children and occasionally gets upset and just hits their kids out of frustration.

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That's the image of physical discipline.

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