Why Narcissists Want To Hurt You (On Purpose)
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
4.9 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 28 October 2025
⏱️ 14 minutes
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Summary
What's going on beautiful people? Today, as a **self aware narcissist**, I'm addressing why some **narcissists** inflict pain intentionally, exploring the **triggers** behind their actions. This is more **relationship advice** to help you when **leaving a narcissist**.
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I'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | So are narcissists planning on hurting you from the beginning? |
| 0:04.6 | Are they planning on doing damage and harming you from the very beginning of the relationship? |
| 0:09.8 | Or, or, or does it just happen naturally? |
| 0:13.0 | Is it just an accident? |
| 0:14.3 | Does it just come out of nowhere? |
| 0:18.0 | That's what we talk about today, y'all. |
| 0:19.7 | Of course, if you're new here, I'm Lee Hammock. |
| 0:21.8 | I'm a diagnosed narcissist. |
| 0:23.0 | And welcome to another episode of the Narcissist Code intro, but I told you before, we're transitioning over to the Mental Healthness podcast. |
| 0:50.3 | Here pretty soon. Longer videos, interviews galore. Just be ready to tune in and support the people being |
| 0:58.1 | interviewed and whatnot. But yeah, to answer the question at hand, are narcissistic people |
| 1:05.4 | planning on hurting you from the beginning? It depends. I know I just made y'all mad that you like Lee what the |
| 1:13.4 | hell? Why would you do that to us? No, it really does depend right because are there |
| 1:19.5 | narcissists out there that absolutely from the very beginning of the relationship that plan on |
| 1:25.6 | hurting you? Yes, there are a ton, a metric ton of |
| 1:29.8 | narcissistic people that absolutely think about hurting you from the very beginning. Like from the |
| 1:35.1 | word go. They're thinking about doing harm to you and putting you through things. They're thinking |
| 1:40.3 | about doing damage to you. They're thinking about all the insidious things that they can do to you, that they can get pleasure from, right? |
| 1:49.0 | A lot of them are doing that. |
| 1:50.3 | There are a lot of narcissists out there that do that. |
| 1:53.4 | That are actively pursuing pain, that are actively pursuing hurt, they're actively pursuing doing damage to you from the from the own set and is not |
| 2:04.0 | just you if a narcissist plans on hurting you from the beginning or a psychopath right if they plan on |
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