Why narcissists never really give you what you want
The Narcissists' Code
Lee Hammock
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🗓️ 28 July 2024
⏱️ 13 minutes
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Summary
Why narcissists never really give you what you want. Narcissistic people see power and control in not giving you what you fully want and need but there are other reasons as well that they withhold things from you.
Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone
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| 0:00.0 | What is going on beautiful people today? We're going to be talking about why |
| 0:04.2 | narcissists don't fully give you what you want and what you need what you require |
| 0:09.0 | in a relationship. If you knew your my name is Lee Hammock I am a self-aware narcissist and welcome to another episode of the narcissist code. Boom, welcome back folks, welcome back, welcome back, welcome back. Yes, yes, yes. |
| 0:36.7 | Why don't narcissists, these narcissists, these dark, dark narcissists ever fully give you what you want? Why do they always kind of leave you? narciss this feeling when you're in a relationship with a narcissist or a toxic person, right? |
| 0:54.3 | That you're not fully fulfilled, right? |
| 0:57.8 | In any way, shape, or form. |
| 0:58.8 | It might happen at the beginning, because that's how they get you. They might fully fulfill you in the beginning right this is how to |
| 1:05.0 | right this is how narcissistic people work they might fully give you what you |
| 1:09.5 | want and what you need what you're looking for in the beginning of |
| 1:11.9 | relationship that's how they get you out they you need, what you're looking for in the beginning of a relationship. |
| 1:12.9 | That's how they get you out. |
| 1:15.2 | They give you what you want to need to reel you in. |
| 1:18.6 | Typically that's how it happens. |
| 1:19.6 | Not all day, it doesn't how it's happened the same way every single time, right? |
| 1:22.6 | But typically, they give you what you want to need. |
| 1:25.0 | They typically, they give you what you're looking for. |
| 1:27.1 | Typically, they do this type of stuff because it benefits them in the end. |
| 1:30.3 | But once they have you, they start to take it away. They start to do less. |
| 1:35.0 | You know, I have a course called understanding the seven stages of a narcissistic relationship. |
| 1:40.0 | I go over this in detail, right? You can find that at mental |
| 1:43.8 | illness.net. You can find a course and whatnot. But this is part of the |
| 1:47.9 | mindset. This is part of the dynamic that so many people face |
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