Why narcissists hate when you cry in front of them
The Narcissists' Code
Lee Hammock
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🗓️ 12 January 2025
⏱️ 17 minutes
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Summary
Why do narcissists hate when you cry in front of them? what goes on inside of their heads when you cry?
What's going on beautiful people, if the is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 & it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims get validation and the Narcissists get to see that you can get help
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| 0:00.0 | What is going on beautiful folks today we're talking about why narcissists hated when you are crying in front of them. Why do they look at your tears or the tears of anybody else as a form of manipulation or control? Why? Why? Why? A little eye water. They get mad at a little eye water sometimes. |
| 0:22.9 | If you're new here, my name is Lee Hammack. |
| 0:24.5 | I'm a diagnosed narcissist. |
| 0:26.7 | And welcome to another episode of the Narcissist Code. |
| 0:27.3 | Let's get it. Let's get it. Welcome back, folks. |
| 0:46.3 | Welcome back, welcome back. |
| 0:49.0 | Yes, y'all. |
| 0:51.4 | A little eye water. |
| 0:53.1 | Why does eye water? |
| 0:56.0 | Why does crying set off some narcissists? |
| 0:59.8 | Why do they react so funky when you are crying in front of them? |
| 1:03.2 | Why? |
| 1:03.6 | Why? |
| 1:04.0 | Why? |
| 1:05.5 | The simple answer to their question is one of the answers to their question is, |
| 1:08.5 | y'all, they see your tears. |
| 1:10.6 | Like I mentioned in the fantastic intro, they see your tears, like I mentioned in the |
| 1:11.5 | fantastic intro, they see your tears as a form of manipulation because when they cry, |
| 1:18.4 | when we cry as narcissists, a lot of the times we're trying to manipulate you. We're trying to |
| 1:24.4 | use our own eye water as a form of manipulation to control you, to get you to stop holding us accountable, to get you to let off, to let, take it easy on us, to get you to forgive and forget, to get you to move off of something, to get some type of leverage, to make you feel guilty, to make you feel bad about something that we have done to you and you found out and you're holding us accountable. |
| 1:48.0 | Y'all, I'm bringing a fire this year. |
| 1:49.7 | I feel good this year. |
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