Why Modern Dating Is Broken
Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami
Kim Anami
4.4 • 1.6K Ratings
🗓️ 20 May 2026
⏱️ 28 minutes
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Summary
Dating humans is so passé. Date gods instead.
If you want an Anami-style injection into your love—and especially dating life—this episode is for you:
10 rules for dating Anami-style to become a dating god.
- Stake your claim. Choose. Plant that flag.
- The best pickup line I’ve ever heard
- Filler and fluffer dating vs. finding “the one”
- When to text, call or get on a plane
- Meeting people in the wild
- How much to talk about your exes during dating. Or ever.
- Shoot your motherfucking shot
- Finding gods in Anami Land
Want to meet superhumans? Come to the Anami Superpower Couple Training Academy in Anami Land.
Because mortals and plebes are so out of style. Give me gods or give me death.
Anami Land is our exclusive, private community for elevation in all things. Especially your bed and love life.
kimanami.com/anamiland
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| 0:00.0 | Orgasmic Enlightenment, where the sexual and spiritual come together. |
| 0:06.7 | I'm Kimanami and I'm a holistic sex and relationship coat and a vaginal weightlifter. |
| 0:12.9 | In this show, we explore all things intimate. |
| 0:15.8 | I believe that our sexual energy is life force, creative energy and we can use it to shape our worlds |
| 0:22.9 | strengthen our relationships and self-actualize. I blend the most avant-garde information from |
| 0:29.8 | neuroscience, ancient sexual practices like tantra and Taoism to renegade wellness modalities to |
| 0:36.4 | show you how to create gourmet sex in your |
| 0:40.0 | lives. Come one, come all. Why is modern dating broken? One sentence answer, because everyone is |
| 0:50.5 | lying and hiding. To be honest, I hadn't really known what was going on in modern dating |
| 0:58.6 | until recently because, A, I've never dated, so, you know, what-ups? B, most of my relationships |
| 1:06.1 | have been unconventional and they've started unconventionally. So they fall out of the normal parameters |
| 1:13.5 | of dating or what people think it is. And see, we fall madly in love from the start and we just |
| 1:21.2 | get on with it. I think my success in dating comes from the fact that I've never done it, at least not the way most |
| 1:29.5 | people think of it. |
| 1:31.0 | And I've been with gods. |
| 1:33.7 | A few boys, some men, but mostly gods. |
| 1:38.6 | The rules are different for gods. |
| 1:41.9 | They bypass all of the stupid human shit. So these are the rules for dating |
| 1:49.0 | gods. I've got 10 of them for you. The first, be honest everywhere all the time. Truth is a divining rod. |
| 1:59.0 | We know it when we hear it. When we're being lied to or information |
| 2:04.2 | withheld from us, we may not know exactly what the lie is about, but we can sense that it's a lie. |
| 2:12.9 | Every time you lie and you think, you're oh so clever because you think you've gotten away with it. |
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