Why Mentorship Matters with Courtney DeFeo
Pardon the Mess with Scarlet Hiltibidal - Christian Motherhood, Biblical Parenting, Raising Christian Kids
Scarlet Hiltibidal and Christian Parenting
4.9 • 850 Ratings
🗓️ 4 September 2025
⏱️ 35 minutes
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Summary
I need EVERYONE to listen to this episode! It’s the kickoff episode for this upcoming school season and you will hear about an exciting new mentor program. I feel more excited than ever to be hosting Pardon The Mess this year. I feel expectant at what God is about to do IN and THROUGH our listeners. I believe it will be a multiplying year for all of us.
I prayed for God to give me direction, discernment and a fresh wind for these upcoming episodes. I do not take it lightly that you trust me with your time and heart and I want to steward that well. Pray with me that God moves through these episodes to reach people for Jesus and that we glorify Him through our families.
In today’s episode, you will have just me! I will share my journey with “mentorship” and invite you to join me all year. Maybe God is calling you to disciple or mentor a younger woman or maybe God is nudging you to reach out to a mentor. Either way, this episode will set you up for success and remind you why it matters.
At the end of this week’s episode, I will answer some of your parenting questions. From parenting new drivers to teen girls to young adults - parenting is so hard and we all need practical help. I share some resources and encouragement around a few topics. Let me know what other questions you have. Simply DM me over at Pardon The Mess Podcast on Instagram and I will make a note for our next Q&A episode.
Enjoy!
Courtney
(00:00) Welcome to Part of the Mess
(01:22) The Power of Prayer and Community
(02:38) Embracing Mentorship
(04:52) The Importance of Discipleship
(10:34) Introducing My Virtual Mentor
(15:06) Reframing Your Role as a Mentor
(20:02) Practical Steps for Mentoring
(22:42) Q&A: Addressing Parenting Challenges
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Resources from today’s show:
Subscribe to Christian Parenting’s Friday Favorites
Compass Church - Women’s Fall Kickoff
Compass Church - Mentor Program
Johnson Ferry Baptist - Titus 2 Mentoring
Goals Sheet
Doing Life With Your Adult Children - book by Jim Burns
I’m happy for you, sort of, not really - book by Kay Wyma
The Lion and the Bear - devotional by Caroline Shankle
God Is - devotional by Alena (Pitts) Franklin
The Better Friend - book by Grace Valentine
Girl Mom Podcast by Kari Kampakis
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Christian Parenting. |
| 0:06.7 | I know you guys are like me. We all want to raise our kids to know love and follow Jesus, |
| 0:13.1 | but if we're honest, parenting with faith in today's world can feel so overwhelming. |
| 0:17.6 | Part of the mess is part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network, and Christian |
| 0:21.4 | parenting exists to equip us with practical tools, encouragement, and biblical wisdom that we all |
| 0:26.6 | need to lead our kids in faith confidently. You don't want to miss the email that comes on |
| 0:30.7 | Fridays by Christian Parenting. It's a Friday favorites newsletter. It will give you quick, |
| 0:35.2 | practical parenting tips, faith building resources and |
| 0:38.1 | encouragement. It goes straight to your inbox. I love getting it. And you'll never feel |
| 0:41.8 | alone on this journey. And here's something special for you, the podcast listener. When you sign up |
| 0:46.4 | today, Christian Parenting will send you a free copy of the Discipleship Simplified Digital Guide. |
| 0:51.7 | It is so packed. It's got easy to use resources, conversation starters, |
| 0:55.4 | and scripts. Don't you love a good script to help you confidently answer your kids' tough faith questions? |
| 1:02.0 | Don't miss out. Subscribe now at cpodcast.org to get the Friday favorites newsletter |
| 1:07.1 | and your free discipleship simplified guide. That's cpodcast.org or just click in the |
| 1:12.5 | link below to get those in the show notes. |
| 1:26.4 | Hey friends, welcome back to Part of the Mess. I'm your host, Courtney Defeo, and today's episode is just me. So buckle in. I'm going to try to look at the camera. I'm also looking at my notes, and we will try to figure this out. But I had a lot to say to you and a lot to tell you about for the year. So I thought a perfect way to do that would just be to kind of have a family meeting, all of those moms that are joined in part of the mess, that we just get together and kind of hear what's on my heart and what God has been pushing me to do and nudging me to do for this year. And I think you'll be excited. I'm excited about it. But first, I want to remind you that this Monday, we are starting together, praying together as a group and a community |
| 2:01.8 | every Monday on part of the mess for our kids. And there's a journal that we go through to do that. It's called a great cloud of witnesses. And if you don't have it yet, go on over to cpgiv.org to get that. And again, we just simply come together on this podcast. You can't have the journal. you don't have to, but it's helpful to have a place |
| 2:17.8 | to be writing like, what is God is pressing on your heart about each child. And then we just listen, well, I'll record the episode, and you'll listen in with your church friends or a group of mom friends, and then just simply pray for your child. I'll try to keep them short and sweet, but you know, I'm a rambler. |
| 2:14.8 | So I would love for you to be a part of this. |
| 2:16.9 | And I know for me, as I look back, but you know, I'm a rambler. So I would love |
| 2:34.8 | for you for you, as I look back, and I'm like, thank you, Lord, that you gave me this job that I had the opportunity to pray on Mondays very intentionally and specifically for my girls. And I can definitely tell a difference. And so let's get in. Again, I'm going to look at some in my notes now. Forgive me if I'm looking off, if you're looking at this on YouTube. |
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