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🗓️ 20 June 2022
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0:00.0 | If you could teach guys like one thing or two things about women, what would it be, what would you tell them? |
0:07.0 | Don't chase. Don't chase. And don't be afraid of rejection. |
0:12.0 | You know, don't be afraid of rejection. |
0:17.0 | My, I guess like my strategy in college would be every time I would see a hot girl I'd just go up and talk to her. |
0:30.0 | I didn't care if I was in a fucking grocery store, if it was in a library, like if I saw a girl that I found a track of, |
0:36.0 | I would just go talk to her and I wouldn't go up and say, oh, I think you're beautiful and all that cheesy bullshit. |
0:41.0 | I would just go talk to her about whatever, like, didn't matter. Just have a conversation with her. |
0:46.0 | See where it went. You know, sometimes it didn't go anywhere. Sometimes it wouldn't want to give you the time of day. |
0:50.0 | Sometimes you'd have a casual conversation and leave nowhere. But at the end of the day, because I did that, |
0:55.0 | I would just make me more comfortable talking to girls. And it was just kind of a numbers game. |
1:00.0 | So I had, you know, pretty great success. And you know, I always used the example of my one buddy who was like real conservative, |
1:08.0 | who would only talk to a girl that you knew, like really liked him. And, you know, so maybe he would like talk to two girls and he would sleep with both of those girls. |
1:15.0 | And I would talk to a hundred girls and maybe I'd sleep with four of them. But at the end of the day, like, he's batting a thousand. |
1:21.0 | But I'm still fucking twice as many girls as I was like, what are those things where I just, you know, I would just put in the time. |
1:31.0 | And I would just interact with tons of girls. And now I realize that a better strategy, if you can do it, |
1:39.0 | a lot of guys don't really have their life set up to do it, is set up your life to where the girls have to come to you. |
1:45.0 | And so you don't have to pursue them. And when you don't have to pursue them, like I said earlier, you know, |
1:51.0 | just the dynamic is different when they're chasing you as opposed to you chasing them. |
1:55.0 | And everyone has more fun. |
1:57.0 | Yeah, I mean, it's, you know, it's better for the girl because then when she finally sleeps, she feels like she accomplished something. |
2:03.0 | And, you know, and she's like, kind of worked for it, so she's a little bit invested. |
2:07.0 | And if you hook up with her, it's because, you know, you've chosen to go up with her and not because you were chasing something. |
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