WHY MEN PULL AWAY
Almost Adulting with Violet Benson
Violet Benson
4.8 • 4.1K Ratings
🗓️ 11 January 2024
⏱️ 43 minutes
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Summary
WHY DO MEN ALWAYS PULL AWAY IN RELATIONSHIPS!?! whether beginning, middle, or end, it seems to always happen at some point. That is why Violetta did all the research written by men, re-read "Why Men Don't Love Women Like You" and "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" so you don't have to, TO GIVE YOU THE ANSWER YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR.
Today, Violetta is set on discussing the psychology behind a man's mind, the three steps to deal with the situation when a man pulls away, and how dating can be beautiful and perfect but it’s all rainbows and butterflies. It often comes with some form of conflict.
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What to Listen For:
- 00:00 Introduction
- 00:46 I booked my parents a trip to Israel
- 03:05 When a man pulls away, it feels like a bad romcom
- 05:38 Reason 1: When they feel overwhelmed or uncertain about their feelings
- 06:26 Reason 2: Some men need space
- 07:18 Reason 3: They are unsure of the relationship
- 08:12 Reason 4: The woman is more invested in the relationship
- 09:41 Step #1: Do not go Britney Spears on him
- 13:53 Step #2: Do not chase him
- 15:01 Men and women do things differently
- 15:40 Imagine that your partner is like a stretched rubberband
- 18:20 Punishing a man when he pulls away is not the right approach
- 23:20 Step #3: Focus on yourself
- 33:17 Dating works but it always comes with some form of conflict
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| 0:00.0 | Imagine that your partner is like a rubber band and it has been stretched to its limit. |
| 0:06.4 | So if you chase him when he pulls away, the rubber band will keep stretching more and more |
| 0:12.3 | further away until it completely |
| 0:13.8 | snaps and breaks. However... It's vile events and your favorite meme queen and |
| 0:18.8 | the big sit you didn't ask for but cede welcome to Almost Adulting. |
| 0:24.7 | Almost Adulting. |
| 0:29.1 | Are you ready? |
| 0:30.6 | Hey Bastsees and welcome to a brand new almost adulting, the largest self-love |
| 0:35.2 | podcast and Movement, your number one destination for personal growth and |
| 0:40.3 | mental health. I am your big sister and host violetta. Today's episode is all |
| 0:46.2 | about why men pull away and the psychology behind a man's mind. I read a couple of books written by men over the weekend so you |
| 0:56.7 | don't have to. All right besties let's face it when a man starts to pull away it feels |
| 1:01.2 | like we are in a bad romcom. It is the same story every time. You probably |
| 1:07.0 | didn't even really like the guy at first. Then this guy wins you over. You finally let |
| 1:12.4 | your guard down. You let him into your heart and |
| 1:15.0 | into your cervix and boom, just like that he's gone. If this was a |
| 1:19.6 | wrong calm, it feels like you suddenly wake up and spilled coffee all over your new blouse and |
| 1:24.6 | then a car hits a puddle while driving past you and then you accidentally shart |
| 1:29.2 | yourself on the subway. I know it's a bad analogy but basically it's just not your day and you can't |
| 1:38.4 | figure out what you did wrong the confusion the doubt the fear we all start to obsess over this, we start to question ourselves, we start to wonder, what went wrong? |
| 1:48.0 | We start to replay every single text in our head and every conversation we try to come up with a plan of how |
| 1:56.8 | can I win this guy back we suddenly forget how much we had to convince ourselves to |
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