From Doormat to Dreamgirl
Almost Adulting with Violet Benson
Violet Benson
4.8 • 4.1K Ratings
🗓️ 9 January 2024
⏱️ 37 minutes
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Summary
Hey Besties! Wondering how to snag your dream man? Relationships can be tricky, especially if you're with the wrong person. In this episode, as we dive deeper into our Manifestation month and roll out another edition of the Benson Book Club, we're exploring "Why Men Love Bitches" by Sherry Argov – a guide for women on standing strong in a relationship. Violetta breaks down the eight attraction principles from the book, giving you a fresh perspective on each one and adding her own spin to what they truly signify. Tune in and level up your relationship game!
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What to Listen For:
- 00:00 Intro
- 02:06 First, you must become the dream girl
- 03:43 The nice girl - every woman at some point has been one
- 04:45 Attraction principle #1: Anything You Chase Runs Away
- 06:45 Attraction principle #2: Some Women Appear to not Care so Much
- 09:44 Attraction principle #3: A Woman Is Seen As Mentally Challenging When A Man Can't Easily Control Her
- 13:29 Attraction principle #4: Sometimes A Man Deliberately Won’t Call Just To See How You Respond
- 14:35 Attraction principle #5: If Something He Have it Becomes a Challenge
- 14:47 Attraction principle #6: It’s All About Your Attitude
- 17:11 Attraction principle #7: Act Like a Price and You’ll Turn Him Into a Believer
- 22:21 Attraction principle #8: The biggest Variable Between a Bitch and a Nice Girl is Fear
- 24:44 10 characteristics of a Dreamgirl
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| 0:00.0 | The door mat, she calls him often and says things like, |
| 0:04.4 | please return my call, why are you not answering? |
| 0:06.9 | I'm so worried about you, where are you? |
| 0:10.3 | The bitch, she gets back to him when she's free. |
| 0:15.0 | The doormat, she's on call like a rookie flight attendant. |
| 0:20.0 | She's just, you know, the minute he calls, the minute he texts, she's there. The bitch, she sees |
| 0:25.3 | him when it's convenient for her. Sometimes she's available, sometimes she's not. |
| 0:29.6 | The following podcast is a dear media production. |
| 0:32.8 | It's vile events and your favorite meme queen and the big sitt you didn't ask for, but see |
| 0:37.8 | them welcome to almost adulting. |
| 0:41.2 | Almost adulting. Almost adulting. Are you ready? |
| 0:47.0 | Hi Bessese and welcome to a brand new almost adulting, the larger self-love podcast and |
| 0:51.9 | movement, your number one destination for |
| 0:54.8 | personal growth and mental health. I'm your big sister and your host Violetta. |
| 0:59.6 | Sorry for today's |
| 1:05.0 | today's episode. |
| 1:06.6 | Okay, so starting this year, |
| 1:09.5 | every Tuesday is now going to be dedicated to the Benson Book Club. |
| 1:16.0 | Because I'm writing a book this year, correct, obviously, I'm going to tell you when it comes out. |
| 1:21.0 | But because I'm writing a book this year, I have |
| 1:24.6 | decided to dedicate my Tuesday episodes to sharing with you some of my favorite |
| 1:30.4 | books in the chapters from those favorite books in the |
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