Why Men Get Rejected When They Ask For A Relationship
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 6 February 2026
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Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeWhy men get rejected for a relationship and what to do instead.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who’s new to my work. He started dating and hooking up with a female client. After about 3 months he asked what are they doing and wanted a relationship. Days later she broke it off and suggested that they be friends. He’s confused as to why she dipped so suddenly.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter and the topic of today's |
| 0:05.3 | newsletter is going to be, why men get rejected when they ask for a relationship. |
| 0:10.9 | So I assume this guy is fairly new to my work and he had something happen that's pretty |
| 0:16.4 | common and probably most of us watching this have had this experience, some of us more than once, |
| 0:22.4 | when we didn't know any better. And so I think he's a mechanic and he started working on this |
| 0:27.4 | woman's car and she started texting him a bunch. She obviously liked him. They started hanging |
| 0:32.8 | out. Eventually he started hooking up. So after about three or four months of dating one |
| 0:39.4 | night when they were hanging out he's like what are we doing in other words it's |
| 0:43.9 | like another version of what are we and that's typically as I discussed a 3% man |
| 0:49.0 | the relationship is the woman's department when she's ready to lock you |
| 0:53.8 | down and be exclusive she's gonna hint at it and do those things. |
| 0:57.9 | But more often than not, most guys do that, and they're unable to tell that the woman is not thinking and feeling the same thing. |
| 1:05.8 | And so after he had this conversation with her, a few days later, she called it off and said that they should just be friends and he was like no thank you but he also asked her like why go from hanging out |
| 1:17.6 | hook it up to oh let's just be friends like that and of course she gave him an answer that |
| 1:22.8 | didn't make any sense and And so he writes in. |
| 1:31.7 | And as I talk about in 3% man, relationships are the woman's department. |
| 1:35.3 | The man's job is to create the opportunity for sex to have him. |
| 1:37.5 | Hang out, have fun, hook up. |
| 1:41.9 | All relationships come from casual hanging out, having fun, and hooking up. |
| 1:45.3 | And when the woman's emotionally ready and she feels safe, |
| 1:50.9 | and typically if you're following what's in the book, that's going to be around week six or week seven, she'll start bringing it up. But if you've been dating a girl for three or four months and |
| 1:55.7 | she's never brought that up and you brought it up, well, clearly you're way more into her than she |
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