Hey, this is Leo, for actualize.org.

And in this video, I want to talk about why men cheat? This video is for the ladies. I know that some of you ladies are really struggling with this. You're struggling with getting a guy to stick around to lock him down and maybe you've had

situations in the past a lot of you women have where a guy has cheated on you and

that hurts you very very badly and you don't understand why they do it

You think that you're this nice girl

You're doing everything that he wants

You are taking care of your health and you're maybe even attractive and all this stuff and he still

cheats. Or maybe you aren't those things and he cheats. So there's very different reasons and

I want to go in this video and cover all the different reasons, my top reasons, for why I think men cheat.

And I want to also give you the deeper understanding of what's really going on here about male attraction.

Because I think that there's a

fundamental problem is that women I find don't really understand how men think.

I see a lot of women thinking that they understand how men think because they've heard about it in the culture or in the media and they think that they understand now how men think.

Most of you women don't really understand how men properly think

you understand this sort of a very neutered version of how a man thinks and

that's causing some problems.

Because as soon as you do start to understand

how men think and what men are attracted to,

then all of a sudden doesn't become quite as surprising.

You're not surprised by some of the behaviors that men take.

And there's also some factors here that you can tweak, some variables that you can tweak in your favor so that you can make sure that men don't cheat on you as often.

You can't guarantee that they never will, but you

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