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What if you were the one who wronged them?

Prospective helps you grow and realize how you could have been better. When you begin to reflect on yourself, you might see you were the one wronging where you once thought you were being wronged? Or that you were the oppressor where you once thought you were oppressed. In all those moments where

you thought you were the victim you may find that you were in fact the aggressor. These flashes of insight are a gift from Allah who guided you to realize

your wrongs. Oh, There's a powerful Hadith of the Prophet

al-A-Ri-Sala al-A-Sala al-Aam where he mentions three men that get stuck in a cave.

And at the entrance of that cave there's this huge boulder.

And all three of them say to each other,

let's make duat to Allah with the deed that we did sincerely for his sake

in hopes that he'll remove the boulder. Now I want you to pay attention to the second man who makes

duah and what exactly he says.

He says, Allahhumah inah kana tlib bintu amin a habab tuha kahashadima yuibur

rijaro nizah.

Oh, Allah I had a cousin of mine that I fell in love with, and I loved her deeper than any man could love any woman.

F And then I asked her to be with me and she refused. And then she goes into deep debt. And he says,

I manipulated her by taking advantage of her desperation and telling her, look, I'll give you a hundred dinars if you do what I want you to do.

So she agreed in her desperation. So he says,

Phalama, we're katubainur I jla, kala,

kah al-Aqabda-Lah, what are? to Beinar Rijla Klaqalat Yaa Abdullah.

What a tough to hillhahatama

I'll be hakah.

Just as I was about to commit that deed and I had her exactly where I wanted her.

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