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EmPowered Couples with The Freemans

Why Marriages Become Bland and How to Keep it Feeling Fresh: Episode 264

EmPowered Couples with The Freemans

Aaron & Jocelyn Freeman

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

5.0589 Ratings

🗓️ 15 November 2022

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Summary

Food that is "bland" isn't bad or inedible, it just lacks any zest or real flavor. Marriage can take on a similar feeling too, it's not that anything is a major problem, but you are not feeling any real zest, excitement, or even newness. 

As you will hear in this episode, all relationships will find themselves in this type of season for some specific reasons. You will also hear some examples, that might even be happening for you now, that signify that you need to take these steps to bring in some freshness, newness, and intentionally to your zest for life and each other!

 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to the Empowered Couples podcast. We're here you get modern, non-boring

0:05.0

relationship advice for you and your partner to communicate like pros, fight smarter, and stay

0:10.0

in the same team no matter the challenge that you face. I am one of your hosts, Erin Freeman.

0:14.0

And I'm Jocelyn Freeman, but you all just know us as the Freeman's.

0:17.0

This episode is about why marriages become bland and how to keep it feeling fresh.

0:22.2

And the word bland is very intentional, right?

0:24.6

Think about food.

0:25.6

Okay, so it's not spoiled.

0:26.9

It's not rotten.

0:28.5

It's edible.

0:30.1

You know, it can sustain you.

0:31.4

It's just kind of, meh, you know?

0:33.8

Like, and we've all had those seasons.

0:35.5

And frankly, we're doing this episode because we need a little freshness in our relationship. We need a little tune up to add a little

0:43.2

excitement because we have those seasons where it does become a little bit more routine and

0:48.9

we're missing a little zest in the partnership. Well, when you think about from the beginning

0:53.0

of a relationship, like when you're dating,

0:55.6

when you're probably engaged, even the first year of marriage, let's say, probably for most,

1:00.7

the first half of the first year, even of marriage.

1:03.8

But you do find yourself in a place where it's like you want to text them like all the

1:09.6

time and you just want to be around them.

1:12.2

You're excited to see them just being in their presence, right?

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