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Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Why Loneliness is Worse Than Cigarettes w/ Dr. Guy Winch

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Violet Benson

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🗓️ 1 February 2024

⏱️ 81 minutes

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Summary

Hey Besties! Today, we welcome author, psychologist, and speaker Dr. Guy Winch. Guy specializes in the field of emotional health and well-being. He has gained recognition for his work in advocating for the importance of addressing emotional pain and mental health. He has given popular TED Talks on subjects such as "Why We All Need to Practice Emotional First Aid" and has authored books, including "Emotional First Aid: Healing Rejection, Guilt, Failure, and Other Everyday Hurts."

Discover how to handle rejection without becoming your own worst critic and get inspired by Guy's own journey through fourteen years of rejection. From trust issues to self-criticism, we got your back with some real talk on navigating those tough moments. Learn the art of nurturing a supportive inner voice, practicing healthy self-reflection, and building emotional resilience. Plus, explore the fascinating world of emotional hygiene and the tools you need for a more resilient emotional well-being.

Dr. Winch's Recovering from Rejection and Failure program, made in collaboration with Mindbloom, is available now! Make sure to check it and start turning setbacks into wins.

If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!


What to Listen For:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 01:52 What are the most common emotions we experience when going through rejection?  
  • 02:58 Why do we stop trusting ourselves after a rejection?
  • 04:33 Don’t become self critical when you experience rejection
  • 06:11 How do you personally handle rejection and failure?
  • 07:40 Getting through fourteen years of rejection
  • 09:12 Having enough encouragement to keep you going
  • 10:49 How do you nurture a more supportive inner voice?
  • 15:42 What is healthy self-reflection?
  • 18:17 It’s about falling down, it’s about getting back up
  • 21:17 What is emotional hygiene?
  • 24:46 What happens when you don’t practice emotional hygiene?
  • 26:44 The tools you need to build emotional resilience
  • 28:56 Is self-compassion a game changer when it comes to dealing with failure?
  • 31:22 How do emotional wounds show up physically?
  • 34:37 Why do people get stuck in loneliness?
  • 39:28 Mindbloom: ketamine therapy for anxiety and depression
  • 45:05 Common misconceptions of psychedelics
  • 47:37 What are people most curious about psychedelics?
  • 49:16 Change your approach to emotional well-being
  • 50:00 The duration of ketamine treatment
  • 51:10 Is ketamine treatment right for you?
  • 53:26 What we don’t understand about heartbreaks
  • 56:17 Heartbreak is a grief process
  • 01:00:00 If you’re not feeling great, it’s not the best time to go online
  • 01:04:14 Real connection requires slight emotional vulnerability
  • 01:05:57 How can you make yourself happier?
  • 01:09:34 The difference between being alone and chronic loneliness
  • 01:11:12 Our emotional health requires effort
  • 01:15:08 Check-in with yourself periodically


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0:00.0

We are social animals. We evolved in tribes, in groups. We need to feel like there's a tribe around us, there's a small community around us. It doesn't have to be 100 people. It can be one, two, three, but we need to feel

0:14.8

belonging, that we're a part of something and that's an emotional feeling. And when we don't have it,

0:19.9

our body goes into distress, whether we are aware of it or not, and that distress wears away

0:25.9

and there's a big number and it predisposes us to cardiovascular disease, to dementia, to all kinds

0:32.0

of things. So it has a massive physiological

0:36.4

consequence even though it's a psychological condition. The following

0:39.6

podcast is a dear media production.

0:41.7

It's vile events in your favorite meme queen and the big sit you didn't ask for, but see

0:47.0

welcome to almost adulting.

0:50.0

Are you ready? Almost Adult Day. Almost Adulting.

0:54.0

Are you ready?

0:56.0

Hi everyone and welcome to a brand new Almost Adulting,

0:59.0

the largest self-law podcast in Movement,

1:01.0

You number one destination for personal growth and mental health.

1:04.7

I'm your big sister and your host, Violetta.

1:07.7

So today my special guest is Dr Guy Wench.

1:10.4

She is a psychologist, a speaker, and an author who is a leading advocate for integrating

1:18.0

the science of emotional health into our daily lives, his book including Emotional First Aid, which I recommend to everyone. It has been

1:25.1

translated into 20 languages as TED Talks, which I constantly speak about, including

1:30.6

How to Fix a Broken Heart. I'm obsessed with that one,

1:33.5

have been viewed over 30 million times. Gaya also hosts the popular podcast,

1:38.0

dear therapist where he does live sessions with guests to help them navigate life challenges so make sure to check out his

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