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Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Violet Benson

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🗓️ 6 February 2024

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta dives into Chapter 5: Jumping Through Hoops Like a Circus Poodle from “Why Men Love B*tches” by Sherry Argov. Ever wondered why most women crave something from a man that they need to give themselves or where the key is keeping your rhythm intact to avoid creating a void in your life? Learn why lowering yourself to fit his criteria lowers the relationship value and why being the "nice girl" might not always be in your best interest.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:40 Chapter 5: Jumping Through Hoops Like a Circus Poodle
05:40 Attraction Principle #3: If you allow your rhythm to be interrupted, you’ll create a void
07:08 Attraction Principle #44: Most women are starving to receive something from a man that they need to give to themselves
08:20 Attraction Principle #45: A woman looks more secure for a man when he can’t pull her away from her life
09:11 Attraction Principle #46: Once she lowers herself to fit his criteria, she has lowered the standard of that relationship
15:50 Attraction Principle #48: You have to keep from being sucked down into a quicksand
18:34 Attraction Principle #50: The nice girl gives herself away too much to please the man
19:41 Attraction Principle #51: The relationship might not be right for you if your jumping through hoops

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0:00.0	He senses her willingness to exert herself and he relaxes what he gives even more.
0:08.0	She senses this and now she works even harder to jump through more hoops.
0:12.3	The cycle gets worse and worse as she becomes more and more
0:15.8	depleted. Does that sound familiar to you? Yeah. So the solution, lose the fantasy.
0:22.0	And if you feel that you are going to resent something after you give it then don't give it.
0:26.5	Give only what feels comfortable to give. This will enable you to stay firmly planted with both feet on the ground.
0:34.0	The following podcast is a dear media production.
0:37.0	It's vile events and your favorite meme queen and the bigsits you didn't ask for,
0:41.0	but see them, welcome to almost adulting.
0:49.0	Are you ready?
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1:07.9	Tuesday. Since I'm writing a book this year I have decided to dedicate all of my Tuesday episodes to Benson Book Club where I share some of my favorite books with you.
1:17.3	Some of my favorite chapters kind of give you cliff notes of my favorite chapters from those books based on whatever the topic is for the
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