Hey, it's your girl, simply Shanika, and you are now listening to The Goddess Confessions. the goddess confessions. When you truly level up, you won't ever question how anyone feels about you.

You'll know. You'll know because you respect yourself, you love yourself, and you know exactly what type of treatment you want to receive.

The reason I say all of this is because I receive so many questions from women and a plethora of them are always about men and why he won't do this, why he's doing that, why he's just not doing the things that he's supposed to do or what you want him to do?

And the answer to that question is, you can't make someone do anything.

They have to want to do it when they want to and they have to meet you at

your level. This is why leveling up is the most important thing to do before you decide to

jump into relationships or put yourself out there to attract men, the life you want, etc.

Everything that you're looking for is within you. You can't seek outside validation.

That's not going to give you what you need.

If you don't feel like you deserve good things, if you don't feel like you're worthy, if you don't feel like you're worthy, if you don't feel like you deserve to have everything that you want, you're not going to get those things.

If you're always feeling down on yourself, if you don't feel beautiful, if you don't feel worthy and valuable, you're going to attract people who also feel the same about you.

And they're going to come in the form of whatever and

everything that you want is gonna come in the form of whatever but then you're

gonna realize it's the exact same thing that you've been dealing with every single time

because you haven't truly leveled up. I've always said that leveling up is

strictly about how you feel about yourself, how you treat yourself, what type of treatment

you allow, and creating the life that you want for yourself, whatever that may be, that's different for everybody.

But when you don't feel those things about yourself, you will deal with a lot of BS a lot of BS that can be avoided you know some of the

questions I get you know I'm just thinking you know sweetheart you have to really really value yourself so much more than

where you are right now because I can't

women don't.

And I'm not judging you because I've been there before,

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