Why It’s Critical You Firmly Establish Your Values | Relationship Theory

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🗓️ 18 September 2020

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Values, priorities, and the ‘non-negotiables.’ What do you do if your significant other isn’t valuing the same things as you and may not be walking through life with the same growth mindset? On this episode of Relationship Theory, Tom and Lisa Bilyeu sit down to discuss how you can take your relationship to a deeper level of connection through communication and a mutual understanding of shared values. They discuss how to approach your significant other when change may be needed in their life, how to open up the lines to a deeper form of communication, and the importance of openly sharing each other’s values and priorities. This episode is brought to you by: EBY: Get 20% your first order at shop.join-eby.com with code IMPACT20 Fastic: Download Fastic for free on the Apple App Store or Google Play. https://fastic.com/ SHOW NOTES: Initiating | Lisa and Tom discuss approaching a significant other about much-needed changes in their life. [00:27] Opening Up | Tom and Lisa share how to open the lines of communication. [1:50] Breaking Through | Lisa and Tom share how to talk to a significant other who may not have a growth mindset. [5:39] Values | Tom and Lisa discuss the importance of why couples should be openly sharing their values. [7:51] Compassion | Lisa and Tom share how to give constructive criticism in a relationship without sounding superior. [11:20] Balance | Tom and Lisa discuss the balance of priorities, values, and sacrifices in a relationship. [13:25] Cut the BS | Tom and Lisa discuss the importance of brutal honesty in a relationship. [16:20] QUOTES: “If you don’t carve out that space and say that these are my non-negotiables, you end up in a world of hurt.” [1:20] “What are the rules of this relationship? What are the values? What are the things that we as a couple are going to decide that we value together?” [7:51] “Things that are right, move you towards your goals. Things that are wrong, move you away from your goals.” [13:07] FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: http://bit.ly/2s9lU90 YouTube: http://bit.ly/2KWanAC Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2xEloFL FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh YouTube: https://bit.ly/2IAbTcH Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2IEajGW0

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0:00.0	What's up everybody? I am super excited to tell you about a new podcast I've just launched
0:05.3	with my amazing wife who's right next to me by the way Lisa Bilyu. What up baby?
0:10.4	The new show is called Relationship Theory and it is available now wherever you listen
0:15.0	to podcasts. Yes seriously guys, Relationship Theory is just a different kind of relationship
0:19.9	show. It is the no-bore relationship show. In each episode we're going to be answering
0:25.2	your questions about every possible aspect of relationships you can expect to hear about
0:30.8	a wide range of topics like developing better communication skills, figuring out the right
0:35.6	time to move in with your partner and tactics to resolve fights and all kinds of tasty
0:40.3	stuff like that. And we also touch upon some juicy topics like sending nude photos, cheating
0:47.1	on your partner and starting workplace relationships which we may not know anything about that.
0:52.7	Alright guys, you're going to hear how Lisa and I have worked on issues throughout our
0:55.7	relationship which by the way we've been married for 18 years, we've been together for 20,
0:59.9	it's absolute madness, we're still on fire for each other and you're even going to hear
1:03.2	how we work through disagreements in real time. Like you will actually hear us working through
1:07.2	stuff on the show. It's like a rinse out of our senses. I know it really is. So whether
1:10.9	you're dating in a serious relationship or married, this show is going to help you level
1:15.1	up your relationship with real tactics and actionable advice without the BS. Yeah, we've
1:20.9	even had single people listen to the show to help them figure out what they're looking
1:24.4	for in a partner. So guys, if you're in a relationship or interested in finding a relationship,
1:29.0	this show is for you. Again, it's called relationship theory. It is now available wherever
1:35.1	you listen to podcasts, you can click the link in the description of this episode and
1:38.8	it will take you right there. We already have multiple episodes posted so you can dive
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