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The PedsDocTalk Podcast: Child Health, Development & Parenting—From a Pediatrician Mom

"Why Is verbalizing Not working for my child?”

The PedsDocTalk Podcast: Child Health, Development & Parenting—From a Pediatrician Mom

Dr. Mona Amin

Medicine, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Parenting

4.91.5K Ratings

🗓️ 5 December 2022

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

Verbalizing with our children when they have big feelings is important, but what is the actual purpose and what should we expect it to achieve? I welcome Amy, a mom from the PDT community, to chat about verbalizing. We discuss: Managing expectations of verbalizing with our children The importance of nonverbal communication during tantrums How we can show we’re okay with our child’s feelings besides verbalization  Check out all the PedsDocTalk Courses for more guidance, tips, and support during parenthood. Check out my weekly videos on child health & development by ⁠subscribing to PedsDocTalk on YouTube⁠. Get trusted pediatric advice, relatable parenting insights, and evidence-based tips delivered straight to your inbox—join thousands of parents who rely on the PDT newsletter to stay informed, supported, and confident. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join the newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! And don’t forget to follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@pedsdoctalkpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on Instagram—our new space just for parents looking for real talk and real support. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on the ⁠⁠⁠PedsDocTalk Podcast Sponsorships⁠⁠⁠ page of the website.  And thanks to our sponsor: Brainiac Foods. To check out Brainiac Food’s line of products and receive 20% off your order, visit the following link to save 20% off your order: brainiacfoods.com/discount/20PEDSDOC Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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The verbalizing is important for them to hear with repetition, but it's also really for us to control our emotions, to maybe relax a little bit, because I don't know if you've been there, but sometimes just say you're having a really hard day.

0:13.0

Sometimes just talking to yourself, like, okay, Amy, you got this, like, you can do it, like, and just really talking yourself down and verbalizing with yourself can calm you down.

0:22.0

So I'd like to use the example of let's use verbalization as sure this is going to be for them to know that we see them and that we are really okay with their feelings, but also that it's really going to be a way that we can use as a tool to calm ourselves down in a situation that's getting escalated.

0:41.0

Hello everyone and welcome back to the show. This podcast continues to grow because of you and your reviews.

0:48.0

So thank you for tuning in and being here today.

0:51.0

On this episode of Monday Mornings with Dr. Mona, I am talking with a parent named Amy about her daughter who's 27 months old and Amy is wondering why verbalizing her child's feelings during tantrums and meltdowns is not exactly working as she expected.

1:10.0

Make sure you listen to the entire conversation as we talk about the purpose of verbalization, some of the mistakes I feel parents make when they're using verbalization, which is an important tool and how to approach these moments with our children using verbalization and other tips as well.

1:29.0

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2:37.0

And now, let's get back to our episode.

2:43.0

Hey Amy, thank you so much for joining us on the show today.

2:46.0

So tell me, what is on your mind today as a mom?

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