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Why Is My Life So Hard? (Rebroadcast)

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4.6 β€’ 32K Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 4 January 2018

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

Most of us feel we face more headwinds and obstacles than everyone else β€” which breeds resentment. We also undervalue the tailwinds that help us β€” which leaves us ungrateful and unhappy. How can we avoid this trap?

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0:00.0

Hey podcast listeners, in this season of gratitude, we are bringing to you today an episode

0:16.6

about gratitude. It's called Why Is My Life So Hard. We first released it last March,

0:22.7

and it quickly became one of our most popular episodes. Also, I wanted to let you know

0:27.5

about a new project you might be interested in. A while back, we put out an episode called

0:31.7

How To Be Less Terrible at Predicting the Future. It was about the research psychologist

0:36.9

Philip Tetlock and his long-standing quest to turn the guesswork of prediction into science.

0:44.0

He set up a massive forecasting tournament about geopolitics to try to learn what it

0:48.7

takes to be a super-forkaster. Well, Tetlock is now running a new forecasting tournament

0:54.6

also about geopolitics, and he is looking for volunteers. But in this one, the humans

1:00.4

get some help in the form of artificial intelligence. It's called the hybrid forecasting competition.

1:07.2

Phil Tetlock knows that Freakonomics Radio listeners are smart and curious, so he asked

1:12.3

us to announce this call out for volunteers. You can sign up at hybridforecasting.com. Good

1:19.1

luck. Basically, what we're trying to answer is, why do people think that life is so hard

1:31.2

for them? We wanted to try to get a handle on how or why it's so easy for people to feel

1:40.1

put upon, to feel resentful, to feel that life has made things harder for them, that it

1:48.0

has for other people. That's Tom Gillovich. I'm a professor of psychology at Cornell University,

1:54.0

and I've studied how people make judgments and decisions in their everyday and professional

1:59.5

lives. And Shai Davidi. Or in Hebrew Shai Davidi,

2:03.6

and I'm an assistant professor of psychology at the New School for Social Research.

2:09.2

Gillovich and Davidi recently published a paper called The Headwinds Tailwinds a Symmetry.

2:15.0

In addition to being a clever piece of experimental research, it has the amazing capacity to make

2:20.8

you feel both much better about your life and much worse. It explains why you think your

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