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Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG

Why Is My Husband Yelling at Me? – Cat’s story

Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG

Anne Blythe, M.Ed.

Education, Sexuality, Relationships, Mental Health, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.61.4K Ratings

🗓️ 1 July 2025

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

It's not your fault. Here's the real reason your husband yells at you.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to betrayal trauma recovery. I'm Anne. It's summer and I remember being so excited thinking my

0:05.1

marriage would improve as we spent quality time together on that road trip or family reunion. If you end up

0:11.1

having the same experience I did where vacations left me feeling more hopeless and scared because I

0:16.0

found out on one of those trips that my husband was using explicit material and lying to me about it.

0:22.1

We're here for you every day all summer long.

0:24.6

You don't have to schedule an appointment or wait.

0:26.6

You can hop on one of our daily group sessions from anywhere.

0:29.8

We're an empathetic team of betrayal trauma professionals and we can help you right away.

0:34.5

Our daily group session support is the safest space for women to focus on their

0:38.0

healing without fear of being traumatized by a therapist or clergy who might seem to think that

0:43.0

you're part of the problem. You're not and you're not alone. If you're ready to join a community

0:48.6

of women who truly understand, check out our group session schedule at BTR.org slash group.

0:53.7

We'd love to see you today.

0:55.5

And if this podcast has been helpful to you, subscribing and leaving a five-star review is the

0:59.5

best way to help other women find it. Follow on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Together we can reach

1:04.8

every woman who needs to hear this. We have a member of our community on today's episode.

1:09.5

We're going to call her Kat. Before Kat

1:12.6

she shares her story, here are seven key questions to ask yourself to determine if his yelling is indicating something deeper.

1:20.3

And you'll hear these themes throughout Kat's story. So number one, maybe he's angry because he has a secret.

1:27.2

If your husband has something he wants to do

1:29.6

that he doesn't want you to know about, he's going to be very irritated when you ask normal

1:34.2

everyday questions. If he's on his way to do that secret thing and you stop him, of course he can't

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