Hi everybody, welcome to the women's dating and confidence podcast. My name is Amber, and today

we're going to be talking about planning. Before we get into that, I want to share with you my free guide

called copy and paste texts for when he's pulling away or acting flaky, the link for that is going to be in

the show notes of this episode. Also, if you're interested in learning more about coaching

and being the first to hear when enrollment opens again, make sure that you get on the coaching

wait list. The link for that is also going to be in the show notes of this episode.

So today's episode is

inspired by a conversation that I had with a client. And really, it's a conversation I have with

everybody everywhere all the time. It's probably going to sound very familiar to you because

we've all been in this situation. So essentially she had

connected with a guy and then he was like, hey, I'm gonna be in town. Would you

like to meet up? And she said sure. And then he said, actually I can't, but we

should hang out some time and she said okay. And then he kept texting her.

And then he was through town, but then he didn't reach out. But then he kept texting her.

And then he asked to meet up. And then she said, okay, when? And then he didn't respond. And then he

kept texting her. Whatever version of this, we've all been through this, right? And her

question was like, essentially what the fuck is going on? What is up with this person? Like,

why is this person texting me if they have absolutely no intention of ever actually meeting up? Why are you

even asking me to meet up if you're not wanting to follow through? What is the purpose? What are they

getting from this? And what I want to share with you today is just a shift in the way that you think about planning.

And I will answer that question of like, why do people do this? Just why? Why? Why? But first,

I want to talk about planning because in the coaching program that I offer, one of the things that I teach my clients

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