Why Is Cumming So Hard???

Come Curious

Comedy, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 833 Ratings

🗓️ 4 June 2026

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

Ever feel like everyone else is having mind-blowing Os while you're still trying to figure out what all the fuss is about? In this solo episode, Reed dives into one of the most common questions in seggs: why can orgasms feel so difficult to reach? From cl"toral Os and G-spots to nipple Os, footgasms and everything in between, Reed shares her own experiences navigating pleasure, performance pressure and learning what actually works for her body. She explores the biggest O blockers — including stress, overthinking, hormones, shame, medication and unrealistic expectations — and explains why chasing an O is often the fastest way to stop one from happening. Plus, she tackles: 💦 Why faking Os helps nobody 🧠 The mind-body disconnect that kills pleasure 🔥 How solo play can transform partnered seggs ✨ What our Curious Fckers revealed about their O habits ⚡ The difference between pleasure and performance Whether you O every time, rarely get there, or are still figuring out what works for your body, this episode is a reminder that pleasure isn't one-size-fits-all. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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1:23.6	Why is coming so hard? Hello curious fuckers. It's your gal. Read here. I just had like a really nice bank holiday Monday. I was out dancing at a free drama bass rave. You know me if
1:29.6	you know me. I'm a bass junkie loving girl and I've been in the sun and I was like, you know what?
1:35.3	Yes. Like I am so feeling recording this episode. I've had some really great conversations with
1:40.8	a guy that I'm currently seeing. Maybe it's more than seeing.
1:45.6	I don't know yet.
1:46.6	I don't know.
1:49.6	But we had some really good conversations around orgasms.
1:51.2	Actually, this morning.
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