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Why I won't sleep with just "anyone" - sex is an energy exchange

LYSS

Lyss Boss

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.82.3K Ratings

🗓️ 10 November 2025

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, I’m getting real about intimacy, sex, and casual dating—and how my perspective has shifted over the years. Now that I’m in my 30s and way more tapped into my feminine energy, I’ve become super intentional about who I share myself with. For me, sex is sacred—it’s not just physical, it’s an energetic exchange. I talk about how cords form, why choosing someone who matches your vibe matters, and how past experiences can carry into present relationships. I also share how I cut cords energetically, heal old wounds, and embody the energy of my future husband so love flows in effortlessly.

Transcript

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0:00.0

On today's episode, we're going to be talking about, oh, hold on, I have to turn my phone off.

0:05.3

Give me one momento. Today we're going to be talking about intimacy, sex, and casual dating.

0:12.0

It's something that I feel like I've covered very, very briefly and touched on in the past, maybe in one episode of the podcast.

0:19.8

But lately, I've been thinking about sex and

0:23.0

intimacy and being in my divine feminine energy and really embodying my power. And my views of

0:30.3

sex have drastically changed over the last few years, especially being in my 30s, really knowing what I want, really knowing what I deserve,

0:40.1

and really embodying my own energy, I've become very selective about not only my dating process,

0:46.7

but also how I view sex and intimacy and what it truly means to me. So on today's episode,

0:51.7

I'm going to share my view, my perspective, and how it really just

0:56.6

plays into my everyday life. I'm also going to be talking about my experiences with casual

1:02.0

dating, being 32, and being in a place where I'm really ready to meet the love of my life

1:08.0

and meet my divine counterpart and my soulmate. I posted a video that went

1:12.7

super viral. I think it has like four million views. And I was talking about soulmates and how a

1:18.5

soulmate love is an integration. You're not dating. You're not confused. You're not questioning.

1:23.4

It just is because that person is God sent. And at the perfect divine timing, that person is gonna walk into your life and it's gonna feel like your souls just mesh and come together and it just works and it feels effortless and easy. Now that video went viral for a reason. There's a lot of people fighting in the comments saying that they don't believe that soulmates exist or maybe they've never experienced that type of love before. But my truth is that that love is out there and that love exists for me. And the closer I've gotten to my faith, the closer I am to God in general at this point in my life, I do believe that he has someone being built and prepared for me. And that's something else I wanted to share with you guys. Let's dive into the sex and intimacy

2:01.6

part of this episode first and then we'll go into soulmate love. It's kind of all tied together.

2:06.3

To me, sex is sacred. Intimacy with another human being is sacred. It's a divine act of love. It literally

2:13.2

creates life. I used to think of sex as, oh, it's not a big deal. It's just casual, whatever.

2:19.4

It's fun. It doesn't matter. When I was in my college days, I viewed everything very, very

2:24.2

differently. But as I got older and as I learned more about myself and I healed a lot of parts of

2:29.2

myself, I realized that I want to be very selective with who I share my body with and who I share my energy with. Now, I also want to preface this episode by saying there is no judgment here. This is a judgment-free zone. What works for you, works for you. At the end of the day, if you believe intimacy, it's just not that big of a deal to you and you don't overthink it and you sleep with whoever you want. You have a one night stand. There's no judgment there. Okay, we've all been there. I've done it before too in my past, but I will say this is just going to be from my perspective currently, how I've evolved, how I've grown, how I've changed, and how my viewpoint on sex is changed and what it really means to me. to me. Sex to me is not just an act. It's actually very sacred.

3:09.1

It's a union of two souls merging and being intimate with each other. It's an energy exchange for me.

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