Orgasmic Enlightenment, where the sexual and spiritual come together.

I'm Kimanami and I'm a holistic sex and relationship coat and a vaginal weightlifter.

In this show, we explore all things intimate.

I believe that our sexual energy is life force, creative energy and we can use it to shape our worlds

strengthen our relationships and self-actualize. I blend the most avant-garde information from

neuroscience, ancient sexual practices like tantra and Taoism to renegade wellness modalities to

show you how to create gourmet sex in your

lives. Come one, come all. Why I love to be fucked soft. I spoke last week about the joys of being

fucked hard, about a man who can, a man who is capable of throwing me around

and hoisting me all over the bed and slamming the headboard. You know, like a proper gentleman.

This week is an ode to the softer, slower fuck. You need a partner who can deliver both. Sex is medicine. When you need and

crave the hard stuff, he's there. And when you need to slow everything down to find yourself

again, he can also navigate the soft stuff. Expert agility in all directions and for all inflections. Let's be clear on a

couple of things first. Both a hard fuck and a soft fuck can go for hours. You've heard me say how the

number one sexual skill a man can build is stamina. The things that can push men over the edge are often

doggy style. When she comes, she makes a certain noise. She looks at him like he is a Messiah

God. Any of these things can take place in a harder or softer session. I have connected as deeply with my partners in a wild, intense

thrash of an encounter as we have in hours-long micro-movements, maybe even deeper in the softness.

In a fast and furious fuck, I am looking to be broken. And when the damn breaks, I find myself.

There's a lot of pounding on the way there. In a slower session, I find myself all along the way.

Every touch becomes electrified. Every thrust is so deliberate and conscious and expansive. I begin to feel every section

of his cock, every fold of his lips on mine, every indent of his fingers as they brush my body.

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