Hi, my wonderful sweet babies. It's Destin Choice and I really had to get my podcast

because I really want to talk about the fact that I don't trust nice people and I don't trust

people pleasing people. Now, this may ruffle some feathers, but a lot of y'all need to hear this.

A lot of y'all watching this or listening to this or whatever the fuck are people pleasers

and are only people pleasers because you pretty much want to get your own way and you're the

kind of person that I probably wouldn't like or get along with. Now the reason why I don't like

nice people, well more specifically overly nice people, is because overly nice people can be a little manipulative. For example, there's people who are really nice and then there's people who are nice because they kind of just want to get something out of you. I.e., when you walk into a retail store and they're like, hi, how are you? So we have this here, we have that, you have to shut the fuck up I just got here you don't even know me you barely looked at my face you just saw my presence and you automatically are being over nice and over attentive which I get because you want to get your check and you wouldn't get your commission but it really gets to know when I come across overly nice people or people who are extra nice and extra accommodating because I always

associate it with being fake and y'all know how I felt about fake people I built a whole brand

of calling out the fake shit and the fuck shit in the entertainment industry and on YouTube

so I don't like fake people and I don't like people who are people pleasing and overly

nice because I usually associate that with being manipulative nice can can be used to manipulate other people. People can be nice to you because they want to sleep with you. People can be nice to you because they want to get some extra money out of you. People can be nice because they're too scared to be alone. So they only want to be nice to you so that way they can have a whole bunch of friends people can be nice to you turn around

and shit on you and then pretty much just fuck you over in the long run i only trust kind people

because kind people are people who are pretty much selfless people who are willing to go out of

their way and do cool things and do a good thing for you or just do a good deed in general

without expecting anything in return a lot of times people who are nice want something in return.

It's one thing to expect somebody to reciprocate the nice energy back because energy bounces off.

But it's another thing when somebody who's nice to you and they feel entitled to your time.

Like you guys ever dealt with a nice guy and immediately when you get from your number, you're being polite him and being nice to him,

he automatically feels entitled to your time because he did all that extra shit for you, right? And then you turn around and you tell him, hey, you know, like, I don't like you like that. I don't want that much from you. Automatically, he acts for all this shit he gave you back. He wants this back. He wants that back. He wants this back. He wants that back. He throws a whole bitch fit. And it's like, well, what the fuck? I was being nice to you. How dare you? You know, it's almost like people who are overly nice. You just have this. Well, I was being nice. So you should do this or you should do that. Well, I'm just being a good person. And I'm being nice and we're being nice. I don't like people like that. Because people like that autotipat to throw it in your face.

And people like that autotypes literally manipulate you into giving them what they want because they're being nice.

That's not a good person.

And I only trust good people because when you're a good person, I trust the fact that when you do something nice or you do a good deed for somebody or you treat everyone with respect, you're not going to just do that just because you simply want everyone to be manipulated or you want to just control the narrative you're simply doing that because you know it's the right thing to do i pretty much i i i let's look

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